What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Herero marriage but bisexual on the DL
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Perpetual horndog
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? First meet

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? B was 38. Apps 6’ 200 lb. small belly hairy but not a gorilla. Very handsome and self assured. He’s 38. Connected thru Grindr. Was apprehensive as always but immediately calm upon meeting

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came to my place. Mid afternoon. Let him pull in the garage to avoid suspicious eyes. I live in the woods. But still. Can’t be too careful.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Took him up into a spare room. Few words were spoken. Kissing him was hot. Clothes started to come off immediately. Continued kissing all during the disrobing. Once we were naked we were stroking each other’s cocks as we continued to kiss. I moved down and kissed and bit one nipple. Then the other. Kisses down his belly then I got to the best part. He was rock hard and I couldn’t resist just deep throating him immediately. Apparently I was right on the mark as I heard a soft growl from above. Stopped for a second and pushed him back onto the bed. Deep sensual French kissing ensued I was hovering over him and he massaged my cock and balls while we kissed, teasing my ass now and then with his middle finger. Made my cock twitch. I kissed down his body again as he lay back and took it like a man. Alternated sucking and stroking him as he got closer and closer w orgasm. When he told me he was close I stroked him with as firm a grip as I could, just as I like to be stroked. He came and it shot up onto his chest anc over one shoulder. Strong full spurts. It was very hot to watch, knowing I was the instigator of this eruption. He told me after that he normally doesn’t cum that strongly. I was quite arroused myself at that point so I positioned myself such that he could reach my cock without getting up. As much as I tried I couldn’t last for more then ten minutes or so as he sucked me and massaged my balls and prostate. I told him I was close and he took me out of his mouth and stroked me as I stroked him. I shuddered as I came, all the time pinching and twisting my nipples which only heightened my pleasure.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He had to get back to work and it was approaching the time my wife would come home. We cleaned up, dressed, kissed a few times more and he was on his way.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one but him. We’ve kept in touch through Grindr but haven’t had the opportunity to meet again. Yet

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Spontaneous. Mutual attraction and excitement

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was only able to last an hour

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Can’t wait for another opportunity to get back together

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Monogamy is highly overrated in my opinion. I fully understand that I am totally bisexual. I wish I could be completely open to everyone

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great concept. I enjoy reading all the new submissions almost daily

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!