by Desert Son
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? Arizona
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 32
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met by chance at an evening outdoor music festival. I didn’t know her before that night.
She was around 5′-4″ tall and probably 180lbs. Big butt and smallish breasts. Two years younger than me if I remember correctly. She had a bubbly personality and was uninhibited, combine this with some beer and things just happened from there.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at the festival alone she was there with a friend. We were standing near each other and she instigated the conversation. Things moved quickly and our hands got exploratory when we thought we could get away with it. When the music was over she invited me back to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to her apartment and went straight to her room. We undressed immediately (in the dark) and she began sucking my very hard, 6-inch cock. My hands fondled and explored her ample body. I could feel my orgasm building, so I switched positions and went down on her. She was very wet and smooth, her hips were moving with me as I ate her and she was moaning loudly. I wasn’t very experienced at the time but I believe she had an orgasm. I then rolled her on her stomach and slipped into her from behind. Her big ass was rolling and jiggling with each thrust and I loved that. I told her I was going to cum and she told me to do it on her ass. So I pulled out and let it go on her, rubbing it on her big cheeks with my dick. We laid there for a bit longer kissing and groping, then she fell asleep and was even snoring loudly.
I gathered my clothes got dressed and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Since I left while she was sleeping I never met with her or really knew much more than her first name. It was a turning point in my sexual life making me realize that there were so many possibilities.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my buddy about it the next day.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How she was the one to instigate the action
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It gave me confidence as a young man. It also made me realize that women sometimes want sex just for sex sake
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Since discovering this site a few days ago I have enjoyed it immensely. It has brought me to think back on many of my past, and more recent, experiences and enjoy them all over again in my mind.
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