What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Midwest
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Firefighter Caught Fighting A Flame
How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We will her call M. M was a tiny redhead, about 5’3″ and 110 pounds. She was married to a firefighter, and well Mr. Firefighter got caught screwing around on her. I met her in a chat room, and we begin to talk daily on the phone shortly after.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She had two kids at the time, so her leaving to come see me was not possible. I made the 5-hour trip to see her and rented a hotel room for the next day. She wanted to get payback on him, so I guess you could call it ‘revenge sex.’
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She came in, and we talked on the bed for a while. She finally said, “What are you waiting for?” I didn’t want to be a pervert and jump her as soon as she walked in, but after she said that, I took action. We made out, and I slid my hands down her pants. Man, was she soaked. And moaning like I’ve never heard. She made me wear a condom (I hate those things), but it was probably smart. I entered her, and her exact words were, “You are really big! I never had one this big and thick before.” She mentioned her husband was maybe 4 inches hard. I made her cum again pretty quickly after penetrating her. We went at it for a good hour, until she told me she had always wanted to ride me while sitting in a chair. Well, we did just that until she collapsed after having another orgasm.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Her husband found a shopping receipt in her car and questioned what she was doing there. But after that, I lost contact with her. The only negative thing was I didn’t orgasm. I can’t with a condom on.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Revenge / Getting even, It was easy/convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Pleasing another man’s wife. Making her orgasm like she never had, according to her.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t orgasm.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool site. You can be discreet.
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