First And Only Casual Sex Experience

 

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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Madrid
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First And Only Casual Sex Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? ca. 3 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S. is 29 years old and does not live in Madrid. She had visited for a conference.

S. has a stocky body, very big pelvis, huge arse, and her breasts are big as well. She has shoulder length dark hair and brown eyes. She has a hungry pussy that is Brazilian-style bald.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met her on Tinder. I use Tinder because I am looking for a new girlfriend. S. told me that she does not live in Madrid, but would visit a lot.

I picked her up from her hotel in the evening and we had a long stroll through the city visiting several bars and clubs. We were dancing and chatting for the whole night. S. was very charming and we had fun together. I was therefore very happy when she kissed me and was hoping that this meant I had found a new girlfriend. S. invited me back to her hotel and I joined her. I was a bit nervous because I had never done something like this: having sex on a first date.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? S. had left a bottle of red wine in her hotel room for us to enjoy. We took it slowly and chatted, kissed and drank wine before anything happened. I was touching her big boobs from above her clothes when she took off her jumper and bra so I could do it better. I played with her tits until she opened my pants and gave me a blowjob.
We soon took off all our clothes for intercourse. S. lay on the bed and showed me her big, bald pussy. I eagerly licked it. This pussy would be all over me during the night because S. wanted so much sex.

We did some 69ing too, with S. pressing her bald pussy onto my head so I would stimulate her. I could not believe how good her blowjob was. It was so good, I almost came in her mouth. She mounted me and we had sex cowgirl style. I loved watching her big breasts bounce. I could tell how happy S. was since she was getting her desired sex fix. Afterward, S. told me that she had been looking forward to that.

We had vaginal sex a second time that night. This time, I asked her to do it doggy style because I love big bottoms. I kissed all over her huge arse before entering her pussy. I pounded her hard until I came. During sex, I stuck a finger into her arsehole. S. seemed to love it, as she was moaning loudly.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I stayed the night at the hotel, and we kissed the next morning. However, S. then told me that she had a long-time boyfriend and had only done this one-night stand because she felt she wanted to have a different experience. I was very dissapointed because I had hoped that I could start a relationship with S. We had kissed a lot so I thought that this meant that she had romantic feelings for me.

On the other hand, I believe I would have enjoyed the sex even more had I known that she has a boyfriend. It must feel great to have sex with a woman fully knowing that she is partnered. Well, I still get to enjoy that feeling now that she has told me. S. hadn’t been completely honest with me, but I would certainly have had sex with her if she would have told me from the start that this is a one-night stand because she wants to cheat on her boyfriend.

I guess I am a bit sad because I missed out on the chance to get a new girlfriend.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends. They told me that I shouldn’t be too upset. I had enjoyed the night and would find a girlfriend some other time.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I felt so connected to S. and enjoyed her kisses. I really thought we were a new couple. I loved how horny she was. I also love big bottoms and huge tits.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That she told me the next day that she had a boyfriend.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The night has given me confidence.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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