What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 27
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
First Frat House Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The guy’s name was Bryce. I was a freshman in college at the time and it was the second weekend since school started. I had only just met him that night. I had gone over to his fraternity with some friends to pre-game before we went out. He was very nice to me. He was a couple of years older and was pretty tall and cute. We talked for a little bit around our friends and then he went to go talk to some of his other friends. Eventually we all left to go to a bar that was pretty lenient with fake IDs.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at the bar I guess. he spotted me and bought me a drink and we started to dance together as the night went on. He eventually started to kiss my neck and then turned me around and we started making out on the dance floor. Before the bar closed, he asked if I wanted to go back to his fraternity with him, and since I was pretty intoxicated and horny, I said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got back to his frat house and went right to his room. He shared a room with 5 other guys and they had bunkbeds and then a separate “living room” area with a couch, TV, etc. We were in the living room and were making out heavily. He started fingering me under my dress and then pulled it down and took off my bra and panties. I was completely naked on the couch and I reached for his dick. He pulled down his pants and I got him hard by giving him head. He then laid me down, got on top of me, and slid his penis inside me. He fucked me in the missionary position for a little bit and then got up so he could turn me over onto my knees. We fucked doggystyle for a while; he really liked that position and was pounding me pretty hard. We went back to the missionary position and after what felt like only a few pumps, he pulled his cock out and came all over my breasts. He got me a towel to wipe myself off with and then gave me a pair of basketball shorts and an extra t-shirt. I fell asleep in his bed and then he took me home in the morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I fell asleep in his bed and he drove me home. I felt a little guilty after. It was my first one-night stand in college and so I felt like I had done something really bad. I texted him a couple of times after and he never really responded unless he was drunk. I figured we didnt have a future together which was okay with me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to a couple of my new friends that I had made so far and one of my old friends from high school. My college friends thought it was funny. they had also had their first one-night stands and so we kinda figured it was normal at this time in our lives.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It definitely opened my eyes to casual sex and made me more accepting of it. It was the first of many one night stands with frat boys in college.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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