First Gay Experience



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Uk
What’s your occupation? Artist
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Gay experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? H” and i knew each other from college and had become very good friends, leading to us becoming roommates in our second year of college. Hes tall, tanned and blond. We had frequently gone out partying together and neither of us ever has a problem hooking up with girls. We were very close but i had never seen him in a sexual light before, and vice versa.
It was a Friday night and we had just finished our last day of college and were in the mood to celebrate. Me, H and a few other buddies had planned to go out that night, but had started pre drinking at our apartment.
The time came when the others were ready to leave, but for some reason after a few beers H and I were not really in the mood and decided to stay in.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went to his room, lit up a few joints and began to watch a movie featuring a hot female actress. No doubt due to this, and our now quite wasted state, talk quickly turned to sex.
After joking about some of the girls wed hooked up with recently, he suddenly asked me if id ever hooked up with a guy. I said no and he seemed surprised based on my past sexual history.
I Then asked him the same question and he said no, but admitted that he sometimes thought about it.
We said nothing for a while, a slight tension in the air, and continued watching the movie. Suddenly he mentioned how hot he thought the girl in the movie was and i noticed he had gotten hard.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On an impulse decision, fueled by the weed and alcohol, i leaned and put my hand on his bulge and started to gently rub and massage it, gauging his reaction. He just smiled at me. Before i knew it we were making out on the bed. I felt exhilarated, this being the first time i had hooked up with a guy and i think he felt the same.
He quickly unzipped my jeans and proceeded to give me head, which felt insanely good, even more so because he was squeezing and licking my balls while doing so which drives me wild. He suddenly grabbed some lube from his bedside locker, and lubed up his fingers, and my asshole, before beginning to finger me.
If felt amazing and before i knew it I had come into his mouth.
Even though id just shot a huge load, i was still extremely hard so i instructed him to unzip his pants and bend over the side of the bed. I got on my knees behind him and started eating his ass while he wanked his big cock. He started pleading with me to fuck him, so I got the lube and rubbed it all over my cock and his asshole before sliding it in which made him cry out and moan loudly. I went slowly till he got used to it, then i really went for it and quickly came all over his now gaping asshole.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both showered and got dressed then after a quick chat about the whole thing, i went to bed. Next day was quite awkward and it has not been mentioned since.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Prescription sedatives (Valium, Xanax, Diazepam, Quaaludes, Phenobarbital)

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We didn’t mention it to anybody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? It made things a little awkward between us, but other than that no regrets.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Got to try a new experience.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The awkwardness rhe next day.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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