First Hookup



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was short, had olive skin, was kinda round but not in a nasty way. She was friends with some of my other friends. I thought she was cool and instantly thought I might want to hook up with her. She was the first girl I really met when I first moved to where I live now.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was at my house. My roommate and I had a few freinds over. The girl, who we’ll call M, was the only one who was 21. So she bought some vodka and we all made some mixed drinks.I hadn’t had much to drink in the last year so my tolerance for booze was very low. I got drunk very fast. She was pretty drunk too. And M was hanging all over me. She tried to kiss me a few times while we were talking. She even put her face on my junk while I was sitting next to her on the couch. She then suggested we do something stupid. I asked her what she mentioned and she said, “Let’s have sex.” I quickly agreed and she followed me to my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I fumbled around looking for my condoms but I was so drunk I could hardly find them. I finally found them and she pulled off her pants and sat on my bed. I took my pants off but couldn’t get hard (too much to drink) she gave me handjob for a little until I was hard enough to put on the condom. I kissed her and laid her on the bed. Then I pushed my cock in her, forgetting to go slow. She gasped and covered her mouth because she didn’t want our friends to hear us. I tried to rub her clit while I thrust into her but I couldn’t find it. Her pussy was shaved to be very smooth. I felt bad because I wasn’t planning on having sex, so I was pretty hairy. She suggested that we do it doggy style. So I pulled out and we started doing it doggy style. Her ass was nice, smooth, and round. I pounded her pretty good and her head hit the wall a few times. We went on for about ten minutes. Neither of us could cum. So she stopped me and got dressed and left me there on my bed with a boner.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I tried to hook up with her again, but she didn’t seem to want to. We stopped hanging out because it was too awkward.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, To cheer myself up, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told our mutual friends right after she left. She told me to tell no one. I can’t lie when I’m drunk, so it just slipped out. They were all grossed out. They were kind of jerks about it.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Very much

Why do you regret this hookup? I regret it because I’m in love with this girl and she knows what happened. I don’t think I have a chance with her now.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Felt good to have sex again. The only other person I’ve had sex with had a very loose vagina. M was pretty tight. It felt good.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to get with the girl I’ve been in love with for a few years now.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Definitely. I think hooking up is not the best of ideas. At least when you’re drunk.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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