First MFM After a Visit to the Strip Club



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Investment Banker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First MFM after a visit to the strip club

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My girlfriend at the time R, was a blue-eyed blonde, about 5″6 with a beautiful body and 34c tits. I was in Charlotte on business and she had travelled with me. On the spur of the moment we decided to go to a strip club, she had never been to one and wanted to check it out. We met V there, he was also in town on business. He was around 37 about 5″8 slender with dark hair and features. He had a 7 ” cock.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were drinking at the club and R who was kind of a wild child had already shown some guys her tits and was getting turned on. We went to the bar to order another drink and V was there and we struck up a conversation. I suggested we sit in one of the private booths. We sat there and drank some more and R started flirting a little with V. I told V that R could dance as well as the strippers and asked him if he wanted to see her dance. He was all about that and I knew she liked to show off. He had a hotel room nearby and we all took a taxi there.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got up to his room, R started dancing for us and in no time she was naked and shaking her ass. She came over to me and started giving me a lap dance. I reached around her and spread her legs and felt her pussy, which was soaked. I asked her if she wanted to dance with V, she pulled him out his chair and they started dancing together and kissing. I could tell she wanted to fuck him so I asked if she did and she was ready. The only thing was that none of us had condoms, so he had to go get some. She and I played a little while he was gone and I teased her about getting some new dick. When he got back we all got naked and at first he was a little uncomfortable and having a hard time getting it up. R started sucking his cock and he got hard. She laid between us and we both sucked her tits and fingered her pussy. She took turns sucking each of our cocks. We spit roasted her, she took turns riding us cowgirl style. I watched him fuck her missionary while she sucked my cock. Pretty much fucked all night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up in his hotel room the next day. She was ready to leave so we took a cab to our hotel. We were kind of hungover but still turned on. I fucked her ass for the first time that morning. I was fine with what happened, she was a little embarrassed and guilty. I told her it was really a hot experience and she felt better. This was to be our first and last threesome with V because he lived PA and we couldn’t hook up again. He would call her sometimes, asking to do it again and they exchanged some hot pics. We went on to have Many other 3somes. We eventually split up due to other issues.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Later I had other fuck buddies who I shared this with. They were in the lifestyle and very open.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Very hot time. It led to many other great experiences.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Wish we had been a little less drunk.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me more aware and open to more experiences

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am very open and have found that there are many more people who are similar but don’t feel comfortable sharing that with their mainstream friends. You never know what goes on in people’s bedrooms

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great to see this project grow and the mainstream media reporting on it. I think it’s good for society

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