First Sexual Experience



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United states
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Operator
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sorta bi
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Sexual Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was very good looking, I met him online and was coming to suck each other off.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began online, I had always been curious about sucking another man’s dick so I made a post online and he contacted me, we talked for a few days and then I went to his house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well I was extremely nervous being my first sexual experience ever let alone being a gay sexual experience. He was very good about making me feel comfortable, when I got there I panicked a little and was really unsure about it, but he talked me into getting naked and said I didn’t have to suck him if I didn’t want to and also made me feel really good even though I am smaller than average.

So he got me hard and started sucking me which made me really horny and made me wanna see his dick so I asked him to see it and he drops his pants and my jaw just dropped, his was bigger soft than mine was hard, so I started sucking him and he got even bigger. I couldn’t believe how huge a penis could be after a lifetime of only seeing my little 4 inch fella. So we ended up 69ing and I came pretty quick and as I was cumming I watched him sucking up all my cum and it hit me that I’m cumming with a real penis in my mouth and kind of panicked again and ended up leaving without getting him off, I still wish to this day I had got him off, it was the greatest sexual experience of my life.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He tried to get a hold of me the next day but I was still a little freaked out about everything so I never answered him back, biggest mistake of my life

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told a girlfriend a few years later, she didn’t really believe me about it so I sucked another guy off to prove that I could suck dick

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How much bigger his dick was than mine

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it only happened once

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Very much so

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It was fun but I eventually grew and am happily married now

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? i like it

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