First Swing



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Paralegal
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 26
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Swing

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 Month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Full Swing

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m a 24 yr old paralegal and have been in my current job for 6 months. I’m 5’10”, toned, brunette with long hair, brown eyes, and tan skin. My husband is 6’2” & extremely built. He was in the military for 6 years and now he works construction. It didn’t take me long to figure out most of the partners were swingers. I’ve noticed they’ve starting being flirty with me and I didn’t mind the attention. The age range of the partners that swing varies between mid 30s to early 60s. However, every guy is attractive and if given the chance, I would hook-up with any of them.

My husband and I have an open relationship but we don’t tell each other the details. Swinging is something we’ve both talked about, done some research for, but not pursued until I had a meeting with my boss. He invited my husband and I to a swinger’s party one weekend at a lake house 2 hours away. I was interested and asked him for a few details. He told me this is a ‘full swing’ party. I called my husband and he agreed to go and was very excited.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My husband wore black suit with bow tie and looked like James Bond. He picked out my clothes. Little Black Mini Dress, black thigh highs, black lace bra and panty & stiletto heels. When I got dressed, I could tell he was rock hard. We would have had sex but we thought it would be rude. My husband said, “Somebody is going to get lucky tonight.” That was so hot.

We arrived and things were not as awkward as we thought. For me, all the men were attractive and very ‘doable’. I watched my husband check out the wives and I could tell he was happy. Everyone had a few drinks, socialized with a couple then it was time to pair off. My partner was mid to late 60s, salt & pepper hair, light beard, blue eyes. His wife was late 40s or early 50s and already left with my husband to our room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to his room and quickly all of our clothes were off and he started giving me oral. I returned the favor. We had regular sex twice by using the standard positions. He was able to drive me to orgasm both times.

Before we went to sleep he asked me how I felt about anal. I told him I do it regularly and gave him the green light but anal only no ‘crossover’. He agreed. He squirted lube in my butt then put on a condom and lubed it up. He’s penis was average size so he slid in easily. It’s hard for me to orgasm while doing anal but he positioned me under a few pillows so his penis would hit my g-spot. He drove me to a very nice orgasm. When we finished for the evening, I let him take the bed and I slept on the couch in the room.

The next morning, we woke up and had sex before it was time to switch back. He showed me a text from his wife bragging about my husband. We talked and he gave me compliments and tips for our next swingers party.

He had been swinging for over 25 years and had been with over 100 women. I was impressed and bragged about his experience in the bedroom.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning, I went to my room and his wife went to her room. Everyone showered, changed and left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few of my friends. They are now curious to try. We are planning a swap with one of the couple’s soon.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The entire experience was fun. It was exciting to be dressed in a sexy outfit & knowing you are going to have sex with someone in the room that’s not your husband.

It was my first time with a much older man and he knew how to please.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I know my husband had a good time and I’m so glad he did but he won’t share the details. I’m trying to talk him into posting his side of this story.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love my husband but I also like having the option to have casual sex with other men from time to time. I don’t ever want my husband to become bored with me so I encourage him to try other women as well.

The swinger lifestyle is perfect for us. We can meet new people and have protected sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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