First Time



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was average height with no hair on his head. I had only talked with him that same day on Grindr and we both wanted to hookup. I met him at his place which was an hour away from me so I had to drive to him. I was extremely nervous before the hookup because I had never hooked up with a man before.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So once I got to his place he let me in and we talked for a few minutes because we wanted to learn a bit more about each other before the sex began. He was the one who instigated it. There was some planning but not much.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

After we talked, he led me to his bedroom and once I was in the door, he put his hand down my pant and started stroking my cock and I just stood there. Right after that, we both got on the bed and he climbed on top of me and started rubbing his hands everywhere and grinding on my hard cock while sucking on my nipples and caressing my balls. After a few minutes of that, he got up and went to his closet to grab condoms and we had talked about it before that we were going to use them. He had 2 kinds lifestyles and magnum and he lubed up my cock and rolled a magnum condom on. Then he lunged his ass up and got back on the bed but he climbed back on me and then put my cock in his ass. It was interesting because I was just laying there and I could feel everything. We did 2 positions and he only asked me once if I was going to cum which at that time I was not but I did cum in the condom in his ass. As I recall I didn’t want it to end because it felt so good. After I came I pulled out and he got back on top of me and he came on my balls.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He went to the bathroom and I got dressed and left. I felt guilty as I drove home but I feel good now. I hope to do it again with this person.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was that I was no longer a virgin and that I had sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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