First Time

by Andy

Gender: Man
Age: 36
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Banking
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Jew
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 17 years ago -1998

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Blonde, normal height. B cup breasts. 6/10.  She was a stranger.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Bumped into each other at a party during freshers week during first year Uni. Chatted for a few minutes before she suggested heading back to her place nearby.
At her’s she gave me one of her flatmates’ beers and we headed to her room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In her room she smoked a cigarette while I sipped my beer. Once she’d finished she started kissing me. Clothes came off and she was on top of me. Her pussy was hairy but neat – perfect. She sucked my dick, just 2 lengths up and down before easing herself all the way down on to me in 1 stroke. I lay back and enjoyed, surprised that I was lasting a long time (you hear some first time horror stories). Her face was close to mine as she rode me, her pussy felt amazing on my dick and I wished it could last forever. She asked me to go on top and I obliged. After 2 strokes on top I came deep in her pussy, it was bliss. She asked ‘did you come?’. I said ‘yes, did you?’ She said she did but I wasn’t sure though she enjoyed it. I passed out.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? 1 for me, hope 1 for her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None, we were naive and lucky.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horny

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? There had been plenty to drink.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke in the morning, shagged again and I got up to leave. She said ‘it’s Andy right?” to which I replied in the negative. I wasn’t bothered. She said if I wanted to stop by for a drink or whatever in the future that would be cool. I didn’t. I bumped into her some time after, ignored her, a bit immature in my part.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? 2 friends – they said good on you.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Lying back on the bed knowing I was about to get laid was best. Worst was doing it unprotected. The next girl I slept with went mad when I tried to put it in without putting a condom on first. One-night stands are good after a drink or 2 and after spending a good amount of time in the evening with the other person first.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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