First Time Cheating



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25 at that time
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? IDN
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Her name was Ioana. she was white, blonde hair, blue eyes, a little taller than me. She was all shaven down there, and totally my type. I was on a business in the Netherlands for two weeks, and I had just met her at that day at a bar in Amsterdam. She was with her friend, and I had bought them drinks and we chatted for an hour or two. Then, suddenly, I was at her place, and we’d left her friend at the bar.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She took her clothes off and so I did. I said sorry because I wasn’t shaved, but she said it was okay. She pushed me on her bed, and told me to relax.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She put a condom on my penis and started to suck it. While she’s sucking, I placed my fingers on her vagina, touching her clitoris and going inside her anus. She enjoyed it. After 5 minutes she asked me, “Do you want to fuck me?”

Without answering I French kissed her and switched positions so that I was on top of her.

I saw her clean, pink vagina as soon as she spread her legs. Just a moment before I put my penis inside her vagina, my girlfriend’s face haunted me, and suddenly felt terrible guilt. But I couldn’t resist the temptation of her vagina and pushed my penis inside of her, and started to pump it in and out.

After 10 minutes in missionary position, I asked her to get on top of me but she said she had a back problem, so we went doggy style instead. I constantly touched her anus and ass cheek while fucking her in this position. Another 10 minutes of railing her from behind, and I started to feel like I was going to blow my huge load so I pulled out and she flipped and spread her legs, showing her vagina. I took the condom off and shot my load all over her stomach, boobs and face. I came a lot at that time.

It felt incredible, and she was a very good lover. She knew what to do to please me. After we fucked, we talked a little bit, she washed her vagina, and I thanked her and kissed her, then I left for my hotel.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t even asked for her phone number, we never had any contact til this day. To be honest, sometimes I miss her and wish we could want to repeat our little ‘game’ again in the future. She fucks so much better than my girl.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? my best friends. they envy me for fucking a white girl for the first time.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? broaden my sexuality

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? no bad things about it

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes, i think im gonna repeat having sex with other girls, since my girlfriend is not so good at bed.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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