First Time Homosexual

by James

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Newtownabbey
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Stripped
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First Time Homosexual

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand.

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Male, really feminine from Asia.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met him at the bus station on way home from work.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did anal and oral. He put lipstick on, a dress, stockings, silk panties, and high heels.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Sadly he goes home in two weeks. I felt amazing, hope to have as much sex as possible and to keep in touch.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My ex girlfriend

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Really exciting and amazing experience fantastic lover

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He has to go home

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it was my first homosexual experience and I would like to have more, please.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He had an amazing body, well equipped, and I’m feeling totally satisfied. Will miss him.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My thoughts on casual sex are it’s really fun.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Always use condoms and be careful

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