First Time Surprise



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Turkey
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Nice libido towards attractive women of different categories/ Love to try new things

First Time Surprise

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is one years older than me, has black hair, and her height is about 5’6, petite, B to C cups (Not like one is C and the other is B, both of them in between B and C) and had slightly big shaped ass. We met 4 months before the hookup.

We are 3 buddies. One offered me and the other friend to meet 2 friends of his girlfriend in a breakfast. We took the deal and met them in a breakfast place. We made a match with the girls in our minds at the beginning but as the conservation proceeded it was obvious that everybody lost interest somehow. We moved to another coffee shop and I ended up exchanging numbers with this girl, lets call her S.
We kept texting each other and flirting with S for 1-2 month or so. I was very tired and overwhelmed by our unmatching intellects at the end and she would not just yield so I let it go and stopped texting ever.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After 2 months, my friend with his girlfriend invited me to hang out with some other girls from his university plus S, as well. I did not give a shit about S at the time, but there was another girl in the group whom I had had a crush on. Two of us met this huge group of girls after noon and spent time on the seaside. Then we parted with university friends which brought my mood down. I was left with a couple (My friend and his girlfriend) and 3 girls including S. The group came up with the idea of going to a hill with a city view since I had a car. I gave approval and took them to this view and it was 8 pm now. We had a nice time up there talking and I mostly hit on other girls. Then we decided to go to my friend’s home to have drinks. The other girls decided to leave to their homes in middle way.

I ended up with a couple and S. The idea of fucking S hit me that moment. It would be my first time if happened. We bought two bottles of wine and started to drink at home, having a conversation. Me and S were drinking the wine mostly and after 1-2 hours this couple leaves to their room. Then we are alone with S finally and we have a straight 2 hours of conversation. The wine really had me at the moment and it was 5 am when I made my move at the balcony.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as I move my lips to her, we start making out so passionately. That I discovered later was because that was also the first time I kissed. Then I took her in and we kept making out for a while on the couch. She is very petite, considering me being 6’2 that I moved her like a toy in my hands. S and I stripped fast, she had a black lingerie pair. I had a hard time opening the bra but B cups were on sight of me and I cupped them while kissing. I put her to missionary position, opened her legs, spat on her pussy and started to gave her head while kept on caressing the boobies. She was satisfied and enjoying this. A while later I could not stand patient and wetted my already rock hard penis. Then I penetrated slowly into her heavenly soft and tight pussy on missionary position.

I started to go in & out and sensed a mood fall on her. Then after a while I took her on top of me, she continued on cowgirl position for a while. I felt like coming and at the edge so I told her to bend over and took her small body in front of me on the couch. I grabbed her thin waist and separated her cheeks to have a better view. God, I love this position. She had nice big ass, knees bent, all on four on display for me. I took my penis and stuck it in her meaty, tight and dripping pussy. I started to hump her slowly in this position, my hands holding her waist I felt so in control and I loved it. I could feel the wine in my blood which made me little dizzy, and it was on the edge of pumping my blood in to my penis so in her cervix. When I sensed I was about to orgasm, I increased the pace steadily and felt sorry for her because she hadn’t come yet and I don’t like doing that to women. After a few more thrusts I pulled out and came on her back. I slipped out and asked if there was anything that I could do for her but she said she was good. We cleaned up and got to our sleeps since the sun was rising. In the morning she left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? One day later she invited me to a date and I was assuming she would want to talk about it and probably want something serious, so I prepared my speech to break her feelings the least I can. However she tells me she had a minor STD and I have probably have it now. I check it in toilet and it is confirmed. I did not know how to react and had been very sad for the next 1-2 month. We did not see each other ever again. I was more confident and risk taking with the life following 3 months.

I had just one breakout that day, and doctors said it was not highly important a disease and I just needed to stay relaxed, avoid stress. It has been 6 years and the disease have not appeared since then yet. It feels like I don’t have it but I know that I have it. It is a weird situation.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To cheer myself up, Everyone else was/is doing it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Most of my friends know it because of this disease.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Because I did not need this. I am funny, happy, charming and could do better for the first time.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to do my first time sex and pussy was somewhat good.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I did get a disease out of it even though it doesn’t affect me at all.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I could feel my horizon widen about women, relationships and sex. I felt more confident afterwards.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? All things considered, it was a somewhat nice experience and not telling me about disease was her fault, she is a bad person. I took my lesson about using preventives/condom.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is very nice and can be used as a means to meet new people. People get so distressed in daily life, everybody should do it to avoid it and get happier.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I believe this project will lead to more and be very helpful to people about relationships somehow.

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