First Time with Older



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Reno, Nevada
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? waitress
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? slutty, flirty, open, not ashamed of anything
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? lets just say MANY
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time with Older

How long ago did this hookup happen? a week ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, with brown hair, amazing blue eyes. Never saw him before that night, we met at one of the casinos here in town. He’s 43, I’m 21.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was late one night, I had just gotten home from work and was actually supposed to hook up with a guy I met at work, but he flaked on me. So I changed clothes and decided to go hit a casino for a little while and have a drink or two. I was playing a video poker machine, having a couple of drinks when I saw him take a seat at the other end of the bar. We made eye contact. He made a “send the girl at the other end whatever she wants to drink” move so I ordered a jager bomb. He soon moved to a chair next to me and we started talking. He told me he was in town for the week for a work event. After a few more shots, he asked if I smoked weed. I told him I did and he asked if I wanted to go and smoke a bowl. By this time I was up for anything. So we left and went back to his hotel room at another hotel. As I got up, he blurted out, “My god, what a great ass!” I just turned my head and smiled. We got to his hotel and in the elevator, he made the move to kiss me. It was a really good kiss. We got to his room and started smoking.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a couple of bowls, we started making out. He was rubbing my pussy through my leggings which is a huge turn on for me. Clothes started to come off, and I started sucking his cock. He wasn’t small but wasn’t huge. After sucking him for a while, he got between my thighs and started eating me out. Sucking on my clit while fingering me, I came twice. He then asked if I was on birth control, I said yes. He got on his back and I climbed on top of him. He held my hips as he slid inside of me and smacked my ass a few times as I bent over for him to suck on my nipples. We switched to doggy style for a while and he smacked my ass as he fucked me. I came again and then got on my back and put my legs on his shoulders. He started fucking me harder and faster, his bed was shaking as I wrapped my legs around him. I told him I was close to cumming again, he said he wanted to cum together at the same time. I pulled him down on me and kissed him deeply as he fucked me faster. I was on the edge of cumming. I felt him slow down just a bit so I wrapped my legs tighter around him as he grunted and came inside of me. I came at the same time. He stayed inside of me until he finished. We lay there kissing and caressing each other as he slid out of me, and his cum started to ooze out of my soaked pussy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep a little while after we finished fucking since it was really really late and we were both rather plastered. I woke up before him, took a shower and then got back in bed. I woke him up by going down on him and we fucked again. This time he came in my mouth and on my tits. He got up to take a shower and while he was in there, I got dressed and left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my roommate about it later that day. She wasn’t shocked, she knows how I can be at times.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was my first time with a much older guy. It was just two people who wanted to have fun and not be alone for the night.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Maybe I should’ve stayed, or at least left my number with him. But oh well, life goes on.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. I’ve always been into casual sex. I’m young and just having fun and exploring new adventures.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to be more open to how they feel about casual sex. People don’t like to admit they have fucked someone random that they just met at a bar or whatever. As long as it’s between two consenting adults and no one gets hurt, do what you want and don’t give a fuck about what people think about you.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great place for people to open up about the random hookups they have had and not be judged about their actions.

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