What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Costa Rica
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Call center
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? As long as it doesn´t involve a serious romantic relationship I can be with both. Not sure if that makes sense haha
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is the first
First Tinder Date With A Sexy Bear
How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is just perfect and I still don´t know how I got to sleep with him. He met every single of my standards!
We met through Tinder and he is the only guy I’ve met in real life from the platform because none of the other guys I talked to really made me want to. But Mr. A (let´s call it like this) was just so interesting and respectful, even after I expressed my interest in only having sex, he didn´t change the way he treated me (like other guys did) and we could talk about a bunch of sexy stuff as if we were talking about the weather which I loved! He is Canadian but raised here in Costa Rica; 30 years old (I guess that is why he was more mature about these things) and very open-minded, something very hard to find here. He is also very handsome. I totally love his face and his beard (the main reason I swiped right). He is huge, about 189cm and very hairy (sexy bear) and he’s got some massive legs I fell in love with.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As I mentioned before, we met through Tinder. He came to my city for business purposes and would be staying for a couple of weeks. As he was staying in an apartment on his own, he invited me to go hang up with him for a bit, which of course I didn’t refuse.
The day we met was a total MESS before we could get down to business, but it was still pretty fun. Not only did the taxi driver get lost in an awful traffic jam but also when we arrived at the motel we ended up going to, all the rooms were occupied. So after talking to the staff, they told us to wait a bit for them to finish preparing one of them. When we were finally in the room, we learned that they only accepted cash and as neither of us had any on us, he had to take a cab to the nearest ATM while I waited in the room (Yes, because the staff wouldn’t let me out just because we had entered the room). Pretty fun, I told you.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After he came back, we started with a blowjob which I was really looking forward to and really enjoyed. I spent quite some time at it and also went to his back and did some rim job there, it was my first time doing it and it was surprisingly hot, and the fact that he seemed to enjoy it turned me on even more. I would definitely do it again (as long as my partners are as clean as he was, of course). During the oral sex he came twice, if my memory serves me right, and when I couldn’t handle it anymore we had penetrative vaginal sex, we did it missionary while he was holding my legs. The view of this huge, hairy and very attractive man using his weight to penetrate me made the sex extra good. I really enjoyed it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we went eating and chat for a bit, I got to know him more which made him even more interesting, after that, we parted ways. On the same day, I felt really good. We even met by chance downtown while he was working. About my expectations, we agreed to meet and have a good time every time he comes back to town. As for how I feel about him, I am still very attracted to him but mostly in a physical way.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? In detail, only to my best girl friend, but I also talked about it with my best male friend.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How well compatible we are, how he made me feel comfortable and the fact that he is a very respectful and complete person. I mean, he isn’t just a fuckable body, but and an interisting person with whom is actually very fun to talk to and get to know.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t really find a “worst” thing, even the occurrences that delayed the encounter were kind of fun.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, of course. I was able to confirm that I really like it, and I would definitely have more encounters like this one. Also that not all men are jerks and some of them can be very respectful even if the girl doesn’t want anything serious, which I truly thought would be very difficult to find at least from where I am from.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? More respect for women that seek it. It’s surprising just how many men will change their attitude and lose respect to her once they see that they can have “Easy” sex just because she is “not playing difficult” and it’s willing to. Also how double faced many men can be, treating a girl one way just to get the benefit and they will later shit the girl with their mates just for being too “easy”.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it. Its pretty fun and a good way to see the other face of casual sex. Most of the times it’s seen as something that only leads to problems, but here we can see that when done propperly it can actually be very fun. Just a little request, please add Central America in the dropdown menu to select the continent we are from. Thank you!
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