by Kevin Finnerty
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Freshman Volleyball Player
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 5’10”, white, long legs, long blonde hair. She played volleyball throughout high school so she had an amazing body. Face was plain but pretty.We knew each other casually in high school, fell out of touch and then met up again in college. I was a junior and she was a freshman. She invited me to hang out and catch up in her single dorm. I wasn’t sure what kind of action I was going to get, she didn’t seem like the hookup type to me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We sat on the bed talking for a bit and then she brought out 2 40’s. We sat and drank and watched some tv. I ended up drinking mine and some of hers, she said she had class early the next day so she couldn’t drink much. But she encouraged me to drink. We also ended up taking a few hits from her vape which I had never tried before. We ended up lying down on the bed side by side. I put my arm around her, she looked at me, and we kissed. It went from there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a bit. She was a good kisser but a little too aggressive, she left a huge hickey on my neck. She pulled my shirt up and slowly kissed down my chest and stomach. She giggled a bit as she undid my pants and said, “There no way I’m sleeping with you tonight. Just to let you know.” I know this is total bullshit but I laugh and agree. She really took her time with the blowjob. At first she just licked it, long slow strokes from the bottom to the tip. She teased me for a while, sucking the tip and enjoying making me squirm.
Then she took most of my dick into her mouth. I hadn’t had a blowjob in a while and it felt incredible. After a minute of bobbing up and down on my cock she pops it out of her mouth, sighs, and says ‘Do you have a condom?” I laugh and say yeah. I hop down off the bed and get my coat, I had a condom in it just in case. I’m a little unsteady on my feet from the drinking.I lie on my back and open the package. As I’m trying to get it out she quickly straddles me, fingers her pussy for a moment, and slides my cock into her. Not sure what she was thinking, I guess she assumed I wouldn’t have one and she really wanted to go raw. I’m a little shocked because it happened really quick. Shes riding me with her eyes closed. For a second I go to stop her and put on the condom, but then I say fuck it. Her pussy was completely bare and soaking wet.
She rides me for a few minutes. She fucked me hard and was pretty loud. Her tits were honestly perfect: perky and big for a fit girl. I tell her to roll over. I climb on top of her and start fucking her. She liked me to pull her hair and bite her neck. After a few minutes I’m ready to cum. I saw birth control pills on her desk when I first came in, so I decide to cum inside her. I grab her hips and shove my cock as far into her pussy as I could and held it there as I came. I rolled off and caught my breath. She seemed surprised and a little embarrassed that she slept with me so quick. We chatted a bit more, and I ended up staying the night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She wanted something serious, I wasn’t really looking for that. We ended up hooking up a few times more over the next year.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just a few of my friends. They were surprised.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity was very hot, as was the woman taking charge.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She wanted something more and I just wasnt interested at the time.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People make a bigger deal out of it than it is.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think its interesting.
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