by Lady Von D
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Financial Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Brown bright eyes, athletic, dark brown hair, slightly tanned, well formed lips that look kissable with a great personality. I was playing with my phone and found a dating app so I decided I should give it a try. Filled out the form. Created my profile and he sent me an invite. We started talking about regular stuff such as what you do for living, where do you live, and how old are you. We exchanged numbers and started talking through Whatsapp. We eventually talked about sex and decided we could try it out. He sent me his address, went to his house, which is about 2 hours drive away from my house. I was attracted to him not only by looks but also because of his personality. Never had hooked up before.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well it was all the conversations we had about saying that we really wanted to taste each other. He is 34 & is single so why not? We talked about not involving feelings in case we liked it and continue with our adventures.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I arrived at his house he offered something to drink and I declined. We talked about traffic on the road and he said well let me give you a massage as a reward. We went to his room he removed my sweater and left me on a tank top with a small skirt on. He gave me the best massage ever and then started to kiss all over my back removed my thong and spanked me; then he turned me around to face him, removed the tank top, and kissed my nipples smoothly and nicely. He took the condom and placed it and before I knew it he was fully inside of me. He started to go in and out smoothly then he changed the rhythm and was more and more intense until he made me cum and he came after.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well I slept over, each one on a different side of the bed. We talked for a bit before going to sleep. When I woke up I headed to the bathroom and washed my teeth and face. Came back to the room and started dressed up, said bye, and headed home. He was a little bit silent so I thought he didn’t like it, turns out he did and we hooked up again but that’s another story.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one as people might misunderstand things.
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It felt right and I was with divine easygoing that we felt great about each other.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We continue doing it and at this point I believe we are developing feelings for each other but can’t say it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It can be tricky but is good to explore your sexuality.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think our society regardless of the ethnicity see it something you shouldn’t do and if you do it there’s something wrong about you. I think we should open our minds to different ways of interaction and accept people who choose to do it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It I’d an amazing way of knowing we are not alone out there and it you’ve you the right side to share your experiences.
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