What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very highly sexed
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? ???
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Tonight
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was my mate’s mum, and she in her early 60s but is a real stunner. We’ve never done anything before but all my mates wanted to. All the lads fancied her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We all got drunk at our local, and I decided to go home in a cab. My mate asked me to drop his mum off as he was off to his girlfriend’s. I thought nothing of it until she asked me to help her in as she was very drunk.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I helped her in still thinking nothing of it, but she told the cab to go and said she’d get me a coffee. She put a large brandy in both coffees, and then after about a half an hour, she staggered upstairs for a wee. When she came down, she had the works on: stockings, high shoes, and a mini skirt. I was shocked, but she said she’d always wanted to fuck a black man and she would do anything I wanted. It took me a while to get a hard-on, but once up, I fucked her until 5 this morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’m a bit mixed up because I love dirty sex, but it was my mate’s mum. I love my Mrs., but its something I’d never ask her to do. But I loved it and want more.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one and we promised not to tell anyone as she wants a lot more.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everything
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Important to people like me who love their wife but need dirty sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Not sure yet
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