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by jenny

Gender: Female

Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Phoenix, AZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Customer service/retail
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at the convenience store I worked at near his house. From the moment I met him I knew I wanted to have sex with him. After about a yr and a break up with his girlfriend, we exchanged numbers. I was ready to leave my boyfriend and was really excited, but turned out neither of us were ready to try something new so about six months later we got in touch again.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I texted him and he said we couldn’t have sex at his place. I was totally blown away and responded what about outside sex. We then proceeded to sext (awkward) til late into the morning and made plans for the next night. I was so nervous. I’ve had a child and my body is not perfect plus I was with my ex for 11 yrs so I was very much out of practice. He picked me up and we went to a park by his house. We talked about our lives, what makes us tick, until about 4 am when we decided to fuck on the jungle gym.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He picked me up and kissed me right away. We went to a park by his house and drank some beers and talked about a lot of sexual things but more of a getting to know each other situation. He wanted to fuck me on the jungle gym hahaha. We were making out and he put his hand down my pants and started playing with my clit and fingering me. I pulled out his cock and started playing with it and then I got on my knees and started sucking his dick. He started fucking my mouth and I was so turned on. Then he laid down and said he wanted me to fuck him. His dick was smaller than what I would have thought but it got me off. Didn’t last long but he told me he hadn’t been with anyone in about a yr. We planned for different circumstances to where we could go multiple times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None but we both talked about how we had been tested and were clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? While sex wasn’t what I actually planned for I have been attracted to him since I met him and honestly just wanted him inside me, wanted to fuck him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank some beers and smoked some weed but I sipped and barely smoked. For the most part I was sober.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I really like him and our conversation presex was amazing and we have made plans to move forward with this.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple friends were happy for me but upset I didn’t use a condom.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Totally consensual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Boosted my self esteem and I really like him as a person, not just a fling….the length of the sex kinda disappointed me and left me wanting more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? My first real mostly sober hookup ever and cant wait for more….

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