Gay Introduction



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Klang
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Seasonal horniness
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Nil

Gay Introduction

How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Older Chinese guy. Just met him that day.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had cycled to a deserted part of the beach. Then I stripped down to briefs for a dip in the water. A Chinese guy appeared about 100m away and walked to my location. I was sitting on the beach against a tree reading a book when he walked past me. He stopped at the next tree, stripped naked and went into the water.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a little swim, he called out to me to join him in the water. After some persuasion, I got up to join him in the water. He told me to take off my briefs which I did and threw it on the sand. He said I had a nice looking bum and circumcised cock with a pretty pink mushroom looking glans penis. He had a slightly longer and thicker uncircumcised cock. We swam out to sea and back to shore where we sat naked beside each other in the water. We chit chatted and he placed his right hand on my thigh. He started caressing. Initially, I pushed his hand away. But he said, “It’s ok and there is nothing wrong about us enjoying our sexuality”. He tried again and caressed my thigh. Even though I pushed him away again he was smiling since I was getting erect. I could not hide that I actually welcomed the touches and caressing. I couldn’t stop him caressing after that. He became dominant and kissed me on the cheek and then on the lips and french kissed. He told me to caress him which I did. We caressed each other’s body and masturbated each other. I ejaculated in the water. We then saw another person in the distance and we decided to swim some more. After the other guy was no longer seen, we got out of the water and went to a spot surrounded by some bushes. We started kissing again and since he had yet to cum, I decided to suck his erect cock …my first time sucking a cock…until he orgasmed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We never kept in touch. But I enjoyed it when I thought about it. It was nice. It was an introduction to having sexual fun with other guys.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Eye opener. It was in open air. I tot that added to the adventure.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Ending it.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was cool. If we didn’t have to go our separate ways as it was getting late, maybe I would have gotten my anal fucking experience then too.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great as long as its consensual and safety precautoons taken.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great!

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