What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Palm Springs
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? a few
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Pam was a little younger than me, about 22, we had been direct messaging with each other after running into each other in a chat room. She lived in North Carolina and had been talking with a guy who lived on the west coast. She wanted to fly out and visit him and asked if she could spend one night at my house. We had flirted online and had gotten very explicit. For example, she would tell me that she could give me a mind blowing blow job and that her pussy was “magical”. I really didn’t expect anything to happen, we had never exchanged pictures and she was coming out to see this other guy. When she did show up I was surprised in that she was almost 6 feet, heavy and not particularly good looking but seeing as how I had been in a dry spell with no sex for almost a month I would not have turned her down.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I picked her up at the airport and since it was almost dinner we stopped and had something to eat. Over dinner, she picked up where we had left off in our sexual flirting. She told me that I couldn’t handle her blow job and that I would have thought that I had died and went to heaven when I felt what her pussy would do to my cock.
I took her home showed her the guest room and where the shower was etc. After getting her settled in I suggested we hit the hot tub. We jumped in and had a relaxing time in the tub. Since it was getting late I suggested we turn in.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went up to my room, took a shower and climbed into bed. I had just barely gotten to sleep when I felt the covers pull back and opened my eyes to see her standing over me nude. She reached down, took my cock in her hand and began kissing, licking my shaft, rolling my balls in her hand as she took the head into her mouth. She worked my cock over for a good 15 minutes. I was enjoying it but she was falling far short of her promise of a mind blowing blow job. I pushed her off and went down on her lapping at her pussy and teasing her clit as my fingers played with her clit. She came fairly quickly and I continued to work her pussy over till she came again.
She pushed me off and started sucking on me and then straddled me and sank down on my cock taking all 7 1/2 thick inches in one push, buried to the hilt. She moaned and began rocking and thrusting. I felt her cum again after just a minute or two. She completely saturated my groin with her juices. I rolled her over onto her back and began working my cock in and out of her pussy, bending over to take first one nipple into my mouth and then the other. I felt her cum again as I bit down on her nipple. After a few minutes of working her pussy over in the missionary position, I loaded up her pussy with my cum. I laid on top of her until my cock shrunk up and fell out.
She had told me her pussy was magical but unfortunately, it was a little loose and average at best. After I lay there on my back for about 10 minutes, she rolled over to me and began sucking my cock again. Although I wasn’t impressed with her cock sucking or her “magical” pussy she was able to get me up fairly quickly. She climbed on and rode me cumming a couple of times. She got on all fours and told me to fuck her hard. I positioned myself and shoved my cock into her pussy and worked long hard strokes in and out slapping her substantial ass as I fucked her. I changed positions with her several times, from doggie to cowboy, reverse cowboy, back to missionary and back to doggie before filling her pussy again. I told her I needed to get some rest and sent her back to her room
In the morning I woke up to her sucking my cock again and we had a couple more rounds of fucking. before I loaded her back up in the car and took her to the train so she could get to her other guy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Despite that she oversold her skills, I was still able to have several good orgasms. I did not want to meet up with her again but as fate would have it, I ended up running in to her again a few times at some gatherings that we both ended up going to, She stated a desire to hook up again at each of these gatherings but I was not interested and I was at these gathering with the intent of hooking up with someone else, not her so I avoided her each time
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? at any other time, I would have taken a pass on her but I had not had sex in almost a month and she was all but handing it to me on a silver platter. Who was I to reject
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to nut inside of her multiple times
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? she wasn’t as good as she said she was and she wasn’t particularly good looking
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? given the circumstances, I probably would have fucked her again
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? casual sex is wonderful as long as everyone involved knows that it is just sex and not romance, unfortunately too often someone starts getting feelings and wants more
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? great idea
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