by Dr T
Current location: London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Single – sometimes have the occasional hook up
Religious affiliation: Humanist – not religious
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Great Sex At Work!
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 10 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling!
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The lady I had sex with was another lecturer who worked me at a University in Bristol in the south west of England. At the time I was in a relationship which was going down the tube and we never had sex, and I missed this. Prior to our sexual encounter I met this lady at work on several occasions at work and found her very attractive. She was more or less my age, and was a little smaller than me in stature. I knew quite quickly that she was attracted to me, but didn’t think anything would happen. To my pleasant surprise, I was wrong!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The lady, who I will call J, wanted to see me in my office to discuss some research work I was undertaking, but in hindsight I realized that she just used this as an excuse to see me. I remember it was a busy day at the University, and I could hear colleagues in their offices which were next and adjacent to mine. When J came in she was pleased to see me, though I could tell immediately that she seemed quite flustered. I remember she told me “that I was much better looking in real life than I was in my staff picture”, and then she just went completely quiet and stared at me. The sexual tension eventually gave way and we started kissing each other passionately on the mouth, and she squirmed when I started kissing her on the neck and on the shoulders. I felt so comfortable with what we were doing that I ran my hands into her clothes and she loved it when I felt her tits and put my hands into her pants and felt her pussy. By now she was striding on top of me and helped me take off her bra exposing her small erect tits, she then stood up and took her pants off and showed me her pussy. By this stage I couldn’t control myself and I took my trousers and boxers shorts off and let her play with my erect cock. She told me how much she liked it, and was massaging my balls and my shaft. Without saying anything she then got on top on me, and I slid my cock into her pussy and we fucked for a little bit while sitting on my chair, which she loved. We briefly got disturbed as we could hear people talking outside my office, but when this stopped I asked her to get on the floor. I then bent her over and fucked her really hard in doggy style while spreading her arse wide with my hands. I then shot my load inside her, and I can honestly say that I have never cum as much as that in my life, and she quietly squealed as I came. We then quickly got dressed and she wiped herself down a bit. We then had a cuddle and J left my office. As left, I thought I hear people in other offices snickering. Perhaps they worked out what happened, even though no one ever brought up any suggestion that this had happened! I remember feeling flushed, and yet very relaxed after this assignation with my colleague. After I drove home I remember my “supposed” girlfriend rather crudely saying “you smell of spunk, have you been playing with yourself?”. I just laughed off what she said, but if only she knew! Normally, I would have felt very guilty about what I did, but as I was in a loveless scenario, I didn’t feel bad at all – for me, it was the tonic I needed and made me feel like I was still attractive to women! (even though my self esteem had been quite low at this point.) The whole scenario was literally like something out of an erotic movie. You hear these things happening to other people, and until this point, I never thought it would happen to me!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was basically full-on sex. Even though I have had other lovers since J, I can say that this one-off encounter with her was the best sex I ever had!! This was down to a combination of things including the spontaneity of the event, the sense of wild abandonment we both felt when this happened, the intensity of the sex itself, and the element of danger in it (as they were people near by who possibly knew what we were up too!). Sexually, our relationship seemed to end after this, and she was colder to me in this sense, though still pleasant.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I had perhaps the biggest orgasm I have ever had. She was literally dripping with my cum afterwards!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use condoms, but she told me she was using a coil and had no STI’s (as neither have I!).
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was a purely spontaneous hook up based on mutual attraction!
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She was amazing lover, and although I have seen J on a few times in London where I now live and work, sadly we have never had sex again. Maybe she just had to “get this out of her system” with me, but I personally would love to have sex with her again, even though I have realized that we actually have very little in common and I couldn’t see her as a long-term partner. But J as a “fuck buddy” is something I could definitely go with!
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a colleague who I worked with in Bristol at the time about it and he thought it was quite amusing. A few select friends know about this, but no women know who I have since been dating.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was completely consensual!
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I regret that I haven’t have sex with J again. It was incredible!! Under normal circumstances I would have felt bad for my ex-girlfriend about how I behaved, but as I was in a sexually stagnant relationship, I have no regrets at all!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? As I said, this was the best sex I have ever had, and has made me realize how amazing a great, spontaneous (and slightly dangerous) sexual liaison can be!! I would love to have another experience like this again, but so far nothing has matched it!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I just like to say that, for me, encounters like this are life-affirming, and I’ll never forget this!
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