What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Grindr Hookup at 3am
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met on Grindr, he was up for the same as me. I hadn’t met him before but I have had a few hookups. He was local and neither of us could accommodate each other because my wife was at home. He couldn’t accommodate but didn’t say why. We met in a quiet street in our town and it was 3am so nobody about.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We discussed where to meet up. We could both drive and we agreed to meet down this street and that I’d make my way to his car to have fun.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived first. When he pulled up shortly after I messaged him on Grindr to check it was him that had pulled up and I got in his car. He was already stroking his cock and it was getting harder by the second. I knelt down in the passenger footwell and got my head into position on his lap. His cock was about 6-8 inches and was clean cut. I sucked on him and took him into my throat as much as possible. I also wanked him a bit while I sucked on his balls. At this point, he gently pushed me back into the passenger seat and got me to get my jeans off. He starting wanking my hardening cock and he then wanted to suck me off too. He sucked on me so expertly I thought I’d blow in his mouth. It was amazing. We then starting wanking ourselves and we came together over ourselves. We then thanked each other cleaned up and went our separate ways.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The embarrassing truth is: I have had a number of hookups with men in the past. I have also had sex with other women other than my wife in the past. The guilt factor has worn off now. I just make sure I have a shower and that I’m tested as clear before doing anything with my wife. I no longer feel guilty about it as it’s not love. Its’ just sex, like a hobby.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have never told anyone about any of my extramarital activities
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Its a big thrill for me, meeting someone new and getting off with them.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He wanted me to cum on myself and he on himself. I wanted his cum in my mouth so I could swallow it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was great just hope we can meet again some time.
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