The Groom Asked Whether We Had Fun



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 14

The groom asked whether we had fun

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Carrie is my age and lookwise quite attractive, from my perspective. Very nice body, best ass ever, outgoing and friendly personality. I’ve known her for years, first just an acquaintance, then chatting every once in a while, etc.

Things sort of evolved and we ended up where we are now. A special thing about her is that she misses one forearm almost entirely by birth. As we got closer, she told me she liked the fact that I made no big deal of it but still didn’t try to pretend as if there wasn’t something different with her. For example one night I challenged her on a cigarette rolling contest just using one hand. She won. We made out once before the now mentioned hook-up, I took her home with me, but it was after a gig I played, I had free drinks, it just didn’t work out that night. Anyways…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? … a few weeks later we met again at a friends wedding. My options to get a ride home sort of disappeared and it soon looked like I needed a place to crash. She offered her place pretty much straight away and I was very glad about that and started to drink water from then on. We shared a cab with a few others and were already over each other in the cab. The groom sent me a text the next morning asking me whether I got lucky (weird thing to ask as a groom, since I hope he got laid himself…[she is her cousin]).

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to her place and there was actually not too much passion while getting into bed. We got ready for bed in the bathroom separated from each other, then started sharing a bed and making out which naturally ended in sex. There was a good connection, what I personally bring down to how the kissing feels, but the sex was well, normal. She was really good at riding me, I put in a lot of effort in missionary, but it just seemed as if my cock wasn’t made for her pussy. Still, I came while fucking her missionary, since, as already mentioned, she has an amazing ass. But it didn’t go all naturally, if that makes sense (for native speakers), in sense of we didn’t flow, we just acted act after act. But hey, sex with a beautiful woman, I had fun.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had sex again the following morning, which was much more satisfying. The bathroom was straight over the corridor where I cleaned myself up so I went there nude and forget to lock the door. Her dad came in and caught me with a semi 😀 Things I laugh about.
We hooked up two more times after that. It was all drunken hook ups on both sides and there’s no need to push this further. We get along very well, which is the most important thing for me. For now, it might happen again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Our circle of common friends nows we’ve hooked up a couple of times. I’ve never talked with anyone explicitly about it but there were some comments. Just jokes, nothing bad. Just two adults having sex.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her ass, her person. I just like her, still

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The missing implicitness about the whole act.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Her one arm looks like a huge dildo with an joint. I’ve seriously considered doing funny stuff with that, but it didn’t happen yet.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? keep on going

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