Happy New Year! (1988)

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by Mr U

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NYC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? School Counselor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Happy New Year! (1988)

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1989

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was blond and blue-eyed, about 5’6″ (a bit taller than the average woman) and had long hair and a fantastic body, including perky medium-sized breasts. Like me, she was in her early 20s (maybe she was 22?).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Maria, of German descent, was a friend of one of my best guy friends, Ken. I think they were in some college musicals together. She ended up in the same group of people who were hanging around NYC on Dec. 31, 1988. We chatted throughout the night, but we hadn’t been especially flirty and neither of us was drunk (I didn’t drink back then). Because my buddy and Maria were out-of-towners, I offered to put them up at my parents’ place, a large apartment in NYC. The group that came back to the apartment included Ken’s girlfriend. Since my parents were home, we all crashed in my bedroom, which was quite large (my brother and I had shared it growing up) and which had two beds. We pulled out a cot for Ken, too.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At some point, I made the first move; Maria was quiet and shy but not unwilling. It was quite late, and Ken and his girlfriend, in the far bed on the other side of the room (separated by some bookshelves) were asleep and gently snoring. Maria and I had moved to the other bed, and we were making out and suddenly found ourselves getting naked. It was very dark in the room, so we couldn’t see much, and we had to be very quiet because of our sleeping friends.

We were both so horny and young that we didn’t need much foreplay. We touched each other’s genitals and I played with and kissed her breasts, and she told me that she was on the pill. We made love quietly and gently, and shortly after she came, so did I. She headed to the bathroom to clean up, and then we went to sleep in my bed, making no pretense about what had happened.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Our friends were surprised to find us in bed together, but we didn’t talk about it much. I guess we chalked it up to a New Year’s Eve one-night-stand, and that was that. I never saw her again, and I never learned her last name.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only talked about it later with Ken. He was surprised that Maria had slept with me because she was introverted and shy, so he didn’t expect that of her.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a perfect one-night-stand, the perfect “zipless fuck.” We both derived pleasure from it, neither one of us expected anything else, and nobody was hurt.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Disease was not on the forefront of people’s minds back then, and we were certainly low-risk candidates for STDs.

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