Hawai’i

by Jennifer

Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: United States
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Nurse’s Aide
Religious affiliation: N/A
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Hawai’i

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup? one night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall, lean, surfer body, blonde hair, blue eyed. Decent face but not gorgeous. I met him while I was vacationing in Hawai’i with my husband at a restaurant we were eating at, he was our server. Didn’t have any feelings for him before the hookup.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I walked to the restroom in the restaurant. He followed, asked for my number, and I gave it. He started texting me and found out I was a tourist. Plannng was involved… I was to wait until my husband went to sleep, sneak out and call him. So I did and he came to the resort and picked me up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We held hands, walked the beach, started kissing, layed down on the sand. He started sucking my breasts and nipples and there was heavy petting. I asked him if he had a condom and he did NOT so we went back to his SUV and drove to a convenience store where he bought condoms. We had sex and it was good.. He was very well endowed for a skinny white boy. I didn’t orgasm but he did. He pulled out, took the condom off and I sucked him off until he came in my mouth. We talked for two hours after about life. He dropped me off at the hotel and that was the end.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom to prevent STIs and pregnancy.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was in an exotic state and felt very aroused by my surroundings. Husband was too drunk most of the trip to get intimate.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope, none at all.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened for days after. I feel fine and even more so since the sex was good. No expectations for a future with him. I don’t feel for him and hope he’s doing well.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. I kept it to myself, being married and all.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual on both ends. He also knew I am married.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope, not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is the sex was different and very good. No messy feelings afterwards. The worst is I left my expensive hair extensions in his vehicle. It’s changed the way I view casual sex. I think I was too repressed.

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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