What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England, Midlands
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Warehouse
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 38
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a 20 year old Romanian girl who I’ll call De. I had known her for around 2 years. I’d originally met her when she came to work at my office with her older sister. I became friendly with her older sister and eventually with her. She was very shy back then and rarely spoke. She and her sister worked there for about 8 months before going home to Romania.
By the end of her time in England, I’d gotten to know her better and we’d become close. We stayed in touch through social media and messaged each other almost every day. She told me that she planned on coming back to England and I was delighted as I’d missed seeing her. About 5 months before this hook up, she returned to England and moved in with her cousin who had a little house not far from me. As I was driving by now, I started giving them lifts to work. It was fairly obvious that we both liked each other, but I thought she was too young for me and perhaps she wouldn’t think someone from a different culture would be the ideal boyfriend. Her sister was always teasing her about her crush on me.
De is about 5’5″, has beautiful long black flowing hair and a delicate, pretty face with brown eyes. She and her sister are gym bunnies and go several times a week so she’s very slender and toned. Her bum is nice and perky and her tits are small but firm.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both had the day off and had agreed to meet for lunch. We met in town but I’d forgotten my wallet and we went back to mine together to retrieve it. Its probably the only time my forgetfulness has worked in my favour. When we got to my place, I got her a drink and we talked for a while on my sofa. She looked particularly beautiful and I was hit by the realisation that I wanted her more than anything. I was overtaken by this thought and leaned in and kissed her. She was shocked, but after a moment that seemed like an eternity to me, she kissed me back.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out on my sofa for a while and I started to try and take off my jeans. She hesitated and told me she’d never done anything further than kissing before. I asked of she wanted to carry on or stop. She said she wanted me to take her virginity, which was like music to my ears. I took her hand and led her to the bedroom. She undressed and stood naked in front of me. She was every bit as perfect as I’d imagined.
I laid her down on the bed and kissed her all over her perfect body. I then went down on her and really went for it as I was trying to give her a good first time. She started twitching and giving little moans as an orgasm rocked her body. I carried on until she had another. After her second orgasm, I stood up and undressed. I’m not as much of a gym freak as De, but I go when I can, so I’m in good shape. I pulled down my boxers to free my cock before I spread her legs and got on top of her. I asked her again if she wanted to do this and she said yes.
After I’d gotten a clear yes, I slowly pushed in. I knew it would cause her some pain at first and she definitely looked in a bit of discomfort as her tiny pussy was invaded by my thick dick. I went as gently and slowly as I could and didn’t go in all the way. Thankfully, she was also well lubricated with her own juices after I’d gone down on her. Once the initial discomfort passed and she started to her used to it, I started putting a little more in and increasing pace. She started her panting again and moaning my name. I didn’t go flat out as that might have been a bit much for her, but I went balls deep eventually and her eyes rolled to the back of her head. Another huge orgasm shook her. This proved too much for me and I went off like a volcano shooting a massive load into her. I wasn’t wearing protection, but I didn’t care if I got her pregnant at that point.
I collapsed to the side with cum still spurting out onto the bed and her side. She was still twitching away and I pulled her to me and kissed her deeply. We laid naked and sticky together for a while as we talked. She’d regained her senses and told me she was unsure if we had a future together. I asked her if she regretted what we’d done and she said no, but that she needed time to think.
She showered and left leaving me dazed and wanting more.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I definitely wanted more. I wanted her more than any woman I’d ever had. She said she needed space to think so I gave it to her. After a couple of weeks, she told me she wanted me even though her religious family might not approve because of my lack of religion.
We’re still together now and only a few weeks away from our wedding. Her family wasn’t particularly happy at first but the fact I’ve a good job, a house of my own, and that I treat her well won them over in the end.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? About this particular hook up I didn’t tell anyone but obviously eventually many people found out we were together.
I know she’s told her family she’s still a virgin and is waiting for her wedding night which definitely made then happier even though it’s a massive lie. I imagine if they found out I’d been fucking their precious girl to orgasm nearly every day for about 18 months, they’d be slightly upset at me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with the woman I’d come to love was incredible, and being someone’s first is always nice.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The thought that she’d regret it and start to hate me for taking her virginity. Thankfully that never transpired.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think this was probably the last time I’ll go for a hook up. I don’t plan on cheating on De, but obviously you don’t know what might happen in the future.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? That going down on a girl and giving her some quality dick can override her dedication to a religious upbringing.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? N/A
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent site
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