High Maintenance Girl



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Hong Kong
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Banker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

High Maintenance Girl

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? B is 30 yrs old, Asian, mid ranking professional woman, average height, good looks and figure, big boobs.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met over tinder and arranged to meet for a dinner date. During dinner, she figured that I was married and I didn’t hide it. Thereafter the conversation proceeded for rest of the night as if nothing can happen. Friendly banter over drinks

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we started leaving for drinks, B came on to me, kissed me and asked me to fuck her. We checked into a nearby hotel as I couldn’t take her to my home.
Once we got to the hotel, clothes came off fairly quickly. We started making out with a lot of tongue involved. I started moving the heat by moving southwards. I removed her panty and she was shaved which was exactly how I like it. I started licking her clit and she moaned. I also inserted a couple of fingers stroking her g spot in simultaneous action. After eating her for over 5 mins when she couldn’t take it anymore she pushed me off. Then she unzipped me and took my cock into her mouth. She proceeded to give a decent blowjob while stroking my balls. I was rock hard and I put a condom on and proceeded to fuck her. We first did cowgirl where I played with her D cups. Then we switched to missionary when I started pounding her tight Asian pussy fairly hard with her moaning loud. After about 10 mins of fucking, I was ready to come so we switched to doggy and continued to pound her from behind till I couldn’t hold any longer and came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Pretty satisfying mutually

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating on my partner

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Important role

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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