What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met S when i was about 5 years old. She is the niece of my parents friends and we spent summer holidays together. I always found her attractive but never thought anything would happen. We were just good friends that caught up once a year. She was medium height, brunette with green eyes. She had huge breasts and is on the chubby curvy size. I find curvy girls very attractive.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was unplanned. One summer my wife and I had a new born baby and I went to the holiday house without her. It was both her and my birthday within a few days and we decided to celebrate with a lot of shots. We played drinking games and she sat next to me. Our legs kept touching and eventually led to stroking each others legs under the table. It was obvious we were both aroused.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Everyone was going to bed and we decided to go for a walk to the beach to sober up a little. We ended up sitting on a public bench and kissing. At this point I was happy with just this but she wanted more. I was reluctant but she took my hand and put it down her panties and she was soaking wet.
I began fingering her and she was moaning, she pulled off her top and bra and started playing with her nipples, then I started sucking her nipples, she had great tits. She put her hands down my pants and starting jerking me off and she had several orgasms from me fingering her.
She then wanted sex and I was so horny i couldn’t say no. She lay in the sand dunes and I fucked her there. I came really quickly in her pussy with no condom. She wanted to keep going but I was too drunk to get hard again. We went skinny dipping together to clean up and went back to the house.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt pretty guilty about cheating on my wife. I talked to the girl and she was ok with it being a one off. I would like to have some more fun with her again but don;t know how to bring it up.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only to the girl i had the hook up with.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had a lot of fun with a friend.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cheated on my wife.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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