What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Writer/Filmmaker
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Hot Beachside Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost four years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a sexy, long-legged, well-toned Latina with tattoos up and down her legs and waist. Her lips were full, gorgeous, and natural. We were paired for a temporary work assignment, but as I was in Los Angeles and she was in the Midwest, we had to initially Skype. This interaction quickly shifted from work-minded to ravenously flirtatious, full of soft eyes and smiles. The sexual tension was such that we began showing up half-clothed to the Skype sessions.
About a month in, she came to LA for an unrelated work event. She was staying at Shutters on the Beach, an expensive resort-hotel in Santa Monica. Around 9:30 pm, she texted me her room number, and I was on my way with a requested bottle of sake in hand. Her room had a beautiful view of the ocean.
When I arrived, she already had the door half-open and was waiting in a shirt and panties.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After so much established sexual tension, and, of course, given her skimpy attire, I felt comfortable enough stripping to my boxers within ten minutes of arriving at her hotel room. We had some sake and actually did do *some* work (if you stretch the term). We lay on our stomachs next to one another on the bed with our folders open before us. As I spoke, she gave me a sensual kiss on the cheek. I turned onto my back and she instantly leaned in to kiss me deeply and passionately. Her full lips were something else … especially as she moved them to my neck, and eventually farther south.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out heavily at first, alternating who was on top. After her initial kiss, I rolled her onto her back and began licking and sucking her nipples, as she wrapped her legs around my waist. We grinded a little, kissing, licking, teasing, sucking, until I was on my back again — both of us now naked — with her fingers sliding around my cock, warming up my shaft.
She shimmied down my body, kissing along the way until her tongue was dancing around the tip of my cock. She licked my balls before wrapping those luscious lips around my dick and going to town. I moaned loudly, but I held my own and didn’t cum, which allowed her to straddle me and fuck me hard until I did — the first time.
After round one, we talked for a while. I assumed things were winding down, so toward 1 am I got up and retrieved my clothes. She remained on the bed, watching me while I dressed. I walked to the side of the bed to address her, maybe offer a goodbye hug or something, when she ambushed me again, driving her lips on mine. More passionate making out ensued. She pulled me back down onto the bed and wrapped her legs around my waist again, this time really tightly as if to suggest how idiotically premature was my notion of leaving.
Figuring round two was imminent, I got up to disrobe. I happened to be facing away from her when I felt her arms wrap around my waist from behind. She held me in that embrace for a moment, then slid her hands down and unburdened me of the task of removing all my pants. She gave me a fantastic reach-around and I came again. I was spent.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We never met up again, nor did we ever Skype. I think it was a perfect overlap of circumstance and raging libido. We built it up, got it out of our system, and never felt the need to touch base (or genitals) ever again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just some friends, male and female. They thought it was amusing, and were supportive.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How enthusiastically she went in for the second round. I’m also a huge fan of feeling a woman’s legs wrapped around me, so her tendency to do that automatically and often was a plus. Also — her luscious lips. She was a great kisser.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My second orgasm took a while, simply because it’d only been like 20 minutes since my first one. So I imagine her hand got tired.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, no.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope!
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