by Musil
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Austin
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? New Media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Hot sex with nurse after concert
How long ago did this hookup happen? A month
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I went alone to a live rock show in town. Started chatting with a group of elderly folks who looked like stingers to me but noticed that a tall, blonde woman outside of this group kept checking me out. She moved closet to me and at some point, she offered to get drinks. One thing lead to another and so we kept buying beers for each other and sang and danced along to the music. We talked between songs and kept touching each other as we leaned in. At some point I put my arm around her hips and kissed her. We started to make out like teenagers and when the show was over went to our cars. Turned out we had parked right next to each other.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She definitely came on to me which was an unexpected and much welcome change. I started the making out part. She was a bit shocked to find out that I am married but I texted my wife and showed the blonde my correspondence with my wife which eased her worries. She said she hadn’t fucked a guy in well over a year
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She had just moved to town and is a nurse. I followed her to her apartment and after some more beer and talking, we started making out and has amazing sex. I ate her wet smooth juicy pussy and then she sucked on my dick for a while, she was obviously happy that I am larger than most. We started to have sex with a condom but I had trouble staying hard. After taking the condom off, I was able to get rock hard again and I fucked her in so many positions that I lost count. I came in her pussy after she came riding my dick. We talked some more and after an hour, she started to suck my dick again and we fucked some more. I ended the second session by coming all over her tits
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy/convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife. She was happy for me and wanted to know all the details. I failed to mention that I fucked this girl without a condom
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I haven’t told my wife about the condom part. I fucked this hot nurse for a night without protection which is against one of our rules. It was so much fun though to fuck her hard and to feel her wet pussy
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was amazing. She had a super wet juicy pussy and was waxed so it was very smooth. I loved grabbing her waist and fucking her really hard
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The condom coming off
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I really love fucking strangers without condoms…
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love it. We should have more of it. All of us
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic
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