What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? editor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A Persian man in his mid 20s who had a funky haircut, a very buff, big muscular body. He was totally shaved, had an amazing ass, was of average height, a had a big thick 8-inch cock. Intriguing combination of very queeny but masculine at the same time. We met on Grindr.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in town for a conference. We had a fairly short chat and exchange of pics in the late evening before we agreed to meet. He showed up at the hotel about 30 minutes later, and I brought him up to my room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Although I didn’t tell him, I had actually hooked up and fucked another guy earlier that afternoon, but it was a fairly unsatisfying hookup. The Persian guy was another story. He wasn’t really what I’d expected, but I found him quite hot. He told me he was a total bottom, definitely my kind of guy!
We kissed briefly then he went in and took a quick shower (he was just coming from the gym). I lay on the bed in my boxer briefs with a hard-on. He came out of the bathroom naked, and I first saw his big juicy dick and could really see how buff he was. He started licking my cock through my briefs and then I yanked them off. He sucked my cock for awhile and then we kissed, then he grabbed the condom, I put it on and lubed myself and him up, and he just sat right down on it.
He was hard and he rode my dick, leaning down to kiss me. Then we switched positions, he got on his back and I started fucking him facing him, kissing him and then pulling back, he wanted me to fuck him hard. We switched again, and I took him from behind, fucking him hard until I came.
Then we lay on the bed for awhile talking and stroking each others’ bodies. My cock never quite went soft. After awhile, he started playing with it again and I laughed because he got me totally hard. He finally grabbed another condom and put it on me, lubed me up, and got back on top, rocking my big cock up his ass. I grabbed some lube and greased up his big cock, wanking him while he rode me until he sprayed all over my hairy chest.
We lay again for awhile talking, then he cleaned himself up and got dressed, lingering to kiss me and telling me how hot I was.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged brief texts on Grindr telling each other the sex was hot and thanks. He told me if I was ever in town again to look him up. I haven’t been back since.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my husband. He expressed his usual curiosity, wanting to hear details, approving but leaving it up to me to tell what I wanted.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was great, the guy had a very hot body, and was very, very into being fucked by me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Besides it being great sex, it was an ego boost as well. Being able to have someone half my age finding me as hot as I found him, is a further plus.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s great.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Thumbs up!
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