I Took A Guy From The Bar Back To My Hotel.

by Ashley

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Customer Service Supervisor
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Mostly into women but I’ll have sex with men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? <4

I Took A Guy From The Bar Back To My Hotel.

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’m going to call him Michael. Michael looked very young, like he was fresh out of high school. I found out after the hookup he was actually 23. He had a pretty boy look. He had clean cut hair, no facial hair, looked like someone who would play basketball, and was at least 5’10”. I was drinking a lot that night and the bartenders got to know me. Well, I asked for 2 drinks at one point. One of them was for a friend. At that time, the bartender said: “why don’t you say hi to my friend Michael.” So I did. I started flirting and I asked if he was gay or straight. He said straight. I only asked because we were at a gay bar. He was cute, a little young for me, but hell, I found him attractive. I tend to prefer my partners are 5-10+ years older than me. I honestly hadn’t even noticed him until the bartender told me to say hi, but I’m glad he did. I was out celebrating a friend’s birthday so I wasn’t planning on hooking up with anyone.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? There was no planning, it all happened by chance. I just happened to be standing next to him when I ordered my drinks and he happened to be friends with the bartender. The bartender suggested I say hi to his friend. I’d already had several drinks by this point.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Michael and I flirted and groped each other at the club. I danced on him and we chatted for maybe 1 hour before he called us a cab to go to my hotel room. I’m assuming I asked him to come back with me, but I’m honestly not sure. We got in the cab and it takes about 10 minutes to get to the hotel. He’s sitting by the door in the cab and I’m laying on my back with my head in his lap. He has his hand down my pants, fingering me, then we get to the hotel. I don’t know how we got undressed but suddenly he’s fucking me on my bed. I was on my back and I was calling him daddy (I have a daddy dom/little girl kink). He was asking if I was going to be a good girl for him. He was bigger than average and had a lot of girth. It hurt, but felt good at the same time. He told me to open my mouth and he spit in it. I swallowed. He did this several times. At one point, he got off me and stood next to the bed. He pulled me over and started shoving his cock down my throat. I thought I was going to choke, I kept gagging. Once he was done with that, he rolled me over and began pushing his cock into my ass. I told him no I was too tight. I put my hands back there and he said to move them. I did.

He had bossed me around earlier, and I loved it. If I was running by hands on his body he’d tell me to put my hands down and I would. He would tell me to open my mouth so I would. I wanted him to fuck me in my ass, but we did not have lube and it was very painful. When I listened to him, he pushed himself into me. I bit my lip and had tears streaming down my face. I’ll be honest it turned me on that he was doing whatever he wanted with me. He began to thrust in and out. It hurt really bad so I told him we had to wait because we didn’t have any lube. I managed to flip him over and start riding him. We did that for while. Then I told him to take a shower with me. I soaped us up and washed our hair. As I was rinsing off, he grabbed my hips and pulled me back to him. He began fucking me doggie style. I held onto the faucet then the side of the tub. After we finished in there, we went back to the bed and he started fucking me hard again. He didn’t try anal again, but he did spit in my mouth and slap my ass. He also squeezed my nipples and breasts really hard. We fucked like this for over 2 hours. We were still fucking when my friend got back and started knocking to let her in. I told her just a minute. I started laughing and he did too. He said that it was such a boner killer. We got dressed and let my friend in. He left about 20 minutes later. We exchanged numbers and I can’t wait to have him fuck me again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel like the moment I said no to anal, he should have stopped. However, I liked that he didn’t so I don’t feel like I was taken advantage of. I just worry about that happening with someone who doesnt like it. I can’t wait for him to use and abuse me again. I like being treated as a toy and I told him so. He took full advantage of that and I loved it. I just wish I had lube for anal. I’ll be sure to have some next time. He’s too young for anything but a fuck buddy, but he has amazing stamina. I was sore inside and out.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? 4 friends who thought it was crazy, but sounded fun. I left out the anal part of the story because I knew they would think that was wrong of him.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Him dominating me: spitting in my mouth, making me choke, etc.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Him shoving his cock into my ass when I said no.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I’ll keep having casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was too drunk to even think about getting a condom and he didn’t wear one. I don’t even remember how I got undressed. There are several gaps of black area that I can’t remember.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s healthy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s amazing!

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