What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 300
Ibiza: Part 3
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve posted a couple of previous stories about a holiday to Ibiza with friends around 10 years ago, where I hooked up with a different girl every day. This was my third hook up of the week. She was a tall, slim, pale redhead, around my age, whom I met in a club and got dancing with.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Everything happened very naturally and easily – it had been obvious from quite an early stage that she was up for it. After we’d been dancing for a while, we started kissing and I asked her if she wanted to get out of there and go back to my hotel room and she said yes. It was only a short walk, during which we had our hands all over each other.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we were back in my hotel room, she quickly stripped out of her clothes (a light-coloured top and denim skirt) to reveal her gorgeous body in a black strapless bra and thong. She sat on the bed and beckoned me over, and as I stood in front of her she got my cock out of my jeans and started sucking it hungrily. After a while I stopped her and joined her on the bed, taking off her bra and panties to leave her completely naked. I spread her legs and went down on her, sometimes using my fingers on her as well, until she came. Whilst she recovered, I took my clothes off and put on a condom, and then as she continued to lie on her back with her legs spread I started fucking her, slowly at first then gradually harder and faster as she moaned loudly. After that, I had her get on top of me and I held her there as I thrusted up into her, her breasts jiggling around in front of my face as I slammed against her. Finally, I was ready to finish and so I moved her onto all fours and fucked her hard doggy style for a few minutes until I came inside her and we both collapsed onto the bed. We got dressed, and I walked her the short distance back to her own hotel, where she thanked me for a fun night and we went our separate ways.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to bed feeling good. There were no expectations on either side that it would be anything more than a one night stand – we certainly didn’t exchange numbers and I’m not sure we even found out each other’s names! I never saw her again after that one night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends said the next day that they’d seen me with the girl on the dancefloor and then I’d disappeared, and they wanted to know if I’d hooked up with her. I told them I had but we didn’t talk much more about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hot, spontaneous easy sex with an attractive girl.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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