What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
In the Woods
How long ago did this hookup happen? just happened
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on a four-hour drive to get to my hotel for business. I stopped to fill up my tank with gas. I pulled into the parking lot and got on Grindr with my phone. In a short period of time, there was a guy walking close by. I offered to meet him and suck him off. From his picture, he had dark hair, late 30’s, nice slim body and great looking cock.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It took me about 5 minutes to find him. He was sitting in a bus shelter close to a park. I pulled over and he jumped in the car. We drove around the park to find a quiet spot. There were a few cars in the distance near a community center. We found a spot and started making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In my car, he lowered his pants exposing his nice hard 7-inch cock. I went down on him and sucked. Every now and then coming up and making out with him and playing with his cock. While I went down on him, he reached into my underwear and played with my ass hole. He started to poke his finger inside me, occasionally licking his finger and returning to push it in me. He told me how much he liked my hole. I asked him if he wanted to fuck me and he said yes.
We got out of the car. I went into the trunk and brought out some condoms and lube. We carefully went into a ravine area. I lowered my pants and bent over. He put the condom on and lubed up my hole and pushed in. He slid right in and started fucking me, slowly at first. It didn’t take him long to cum. He shot his load in the condom up my ass. He pulled out, discarded the condom and we made our way back to the car. I dropped him off at his place of work and drove away.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was the first time I had sex in the forest. There was a thrill in fucking with the potential to get caught.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Not talked to anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A cute partner with a hot body and a great cock. We had fun together and he had great technique fucking.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was difficult finding a flat area to fuck.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex with two consenting partners and always practicing safe sex can be fulfilling.
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