What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ohio
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Insurance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One
How long ago did this hookup happen? 26 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall 6′ super body not very cute
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We sat next to each other in poly sci class our freshman year. We talked and got to know each other a little, but outside of class we didn’t see each other around campus. After class one day I invited her over to my dorm that night she said why? I simply told her to have sex. She walked away and didn’t say anything. About 10 that night she was knocking at my door.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She came in we had a couple of beers and talked. It was a little awkward. After about 20 minutes she looks at me and says are we going to fuck or what. We started kissing and tore each other’s clothes off. I was thinking she wasn’t very experienced but after sucking my dick to get me hard I knew she was. She sucked me hard and I fucked her missionary until I was getting close her pussy was amazing I pulled out ate her pussy. She got on top and to this day was the best cowgirl fuck I ever received. I still jerk off thinking about it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wanted to hook up again but come to find out she had just broke up with a boyfriend. She told me she just needed a night like we had to feel good about her self. We remained friends through the semester and then she transferred I still think about her 26 years later
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My room mate. Told me it was bad because she was ugly. He couldn’t understand how amazing the sex was
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Amazing sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? none really
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is awesome. It re affirms sex is a physical activity.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex is just a physical activity. It isn’t always going to be great.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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