Current location: New Jersey
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
?How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a plain looking girl in good shape, dirty blonde, petite. I had never met her before. We met at a nightclub in Waterford, Ireland. She was a “fag hag”, and I was a “fag stag”, according to my gay friends.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it We were both at a nightclub, each with our friends, and we caught each other’s eyes. I smiled at her, and she walked over and asked me if I was gay. Apparently she and her gay friend had been debating whether I was interested in him or her. I told her I was straight, and we started chatting. I may have bought her a drink. I was quite drunk, so much of the evening is hazy. My friends said they were leaving, and she and I went with them. I think we ended up at the flat of one of my friends. We started kissing, and eventually I asked her to come back to my hotel with me. She agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I know that I was hammered, and I am pretty sure she was too. We got back to my room and immediately went at it. We stripped, then jumped in bed. She started giving me an amazing blowjob, and I realized that I didn’t have a condom.
I left the room and went downstairs to the lobby, because I had noticed earlier that the bathroom had a condom vending machine. I bought a condom and went back upstairs. When I got to the room, she was asleep.
I woke her up, put the condom on, and we started having sex. The condom was making it difficult to stay hard, so she pulled it off and we got back to business.
I think she came, and I know I did, and shortly thereafter we both fell asleep.
The blowjob was phenomenal, the sex was sloppy but surprisingly good, considering how drunk we were. She had a beautiful body, and I wasn’t so hard on the eyes either.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? As I said, I definitely came, and I think she did too.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We briefly tried to use a condom, but quickly got rid of it. We didn’t discuss STIs or pregnancy.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Hehe. My reasons for having the hookup are the usual ones – sex is fun.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No drugs, lots of booze.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep immediately after we finished fucking.
A few hours later, she woke up and said she had to go home. We were still drunk, and although my beer goggles had begun to fade, I was still not thinking very clearly.
I got her number, and invited her to visit me when I got back to the U.S.. She was more clear headed, and said “Fer feck’s sake, I don’t fecking know you!” We left it at that.
If I was sober, I never would have asked her to come to America to see me. We never spoke to each other again.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my closest friend in Ireland. He had not been very fond of her, so he was happy for me, but voiced his dislike for her.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? We were both totally willing.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the blow job. The worst was the drunkenness.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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