Is This Okay?



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Tokyo
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I think I like dudes but I’m open to whatever
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? First one

Is This Okay?

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I watched with him on Tinder like two years ago but then he sent me a message out of the blue and I haven’t had sex in a while so I thought to my self “eh, fuck it,” so we met up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

I thought there would be more kissings and like the foreplay stuff. But as soon as we were in bed, he went down on me and asked my permission if he could lick my pussy. Which, by the way was surprising because not a lot of guys want to go down on a girl. Or maybe that’s just people around me but who knows. I almost came during oral sex but he was like yo, can you do me now. I mean I felt bad so I was like why not. After a few minutes of sucking his dick, we both agreed we wanted to fuck. The sex was satisfying. It felt good but nothing too out of the ordinary.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both took a nap and then got taco bell. He lives somewhat far away so I don’t get to see him whenever I want but I do wish he’ll give me a text if he’s ever in town.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Making new friends, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!