What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chile
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, Ph.D., JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a cute brunette with an average body. We matched on Tinder and talked for a few days. Our conversations became more flirtatious and hot, so I asked if she would be willing to get in a jacuzzi with me. She agreed.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I picked her up at her place and drove to a “motel” (pay-by-the-hour hotel) that had a room with a jacuzzi in it. All the planning that had been done beforehand was just making sure there was a room with a hot tub available and getting her address.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had some beers while talking and stuff, while the hot water was filling the tub. After a while I suggested we get in the jacuzzi, so she goes to the bathroom to put on a bikini (she was prepared!) and I got naked and got in the water. She got in afterwards, we continued talking, but our hands were starting to touch each others’ bodies. I managed to take her bikini off, and she felt my already hard cock and rubbed it a bit, and I returned the favor. We got out of the jacuzzi and went to the bed and fucked.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked a bit but not much more. I just wanted a hook up.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A friend. She was surprised.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was just straightforward, no strings attached sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No oral sex. She complained a bit when it got more intense.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think its healthy to have an active sex life, whether it’s in a stable or casual relationship, provided there’s consent and sti/pregnancy precautions. I do think too many people take sex too seriously.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s an interesting project.
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