What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? PA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Just Met For Public Nature Sex
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had just met. M was a plain but fit girl. We were about the same age. We met that day at a weekend camp/bike event through some mutual friends. We hung out and got along great.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The campsite at the end of the day had a concert with free beer flowing. There was a lot of bike riding followed by drinking that day. M and I were hanging out and were outside the tent area drunk talking about stupid stuff. I could tell we were getting a lot friendlier and closer. There were people walking about but it was mostly dark. We just started making out then, I don’t know who started it. We had to pause and move out of the light and things escalated from there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Details are a little hazy, but I remember when we were in an area off the trails and in the dark, I could feel her unbuttoning my pants. I let her continue while we were making out. She reached down, grabbed my cock and then immediately started sucking it. I was loving it and we laid down. Fortunately the ground was mossy. There were people walking around us the entire time just past some trees, all I could see were the flashlights. Her pants came off at some point but I don’t remember how. We started to fuck and she was saying “fuck me hard” but I was too drunk to know what that meant. It seemed like we were at it for a while, but time perception was bad. I came twice and then she went back to sucking my dick, longer this time. I came a third time in her mouth. We got up and put ourselves back together. I woke up in my tent the next morning, i don’t remember how I got back there though!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day brought mixed feelings. If sober, i probably wouldn’t have had random unprotected nature sex. Also, the night got real cold and i was not properly clothed or in the sleeping bag. I got a cold later that day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I was married and wished i never crossed that line. But i wanted it and it was amazing at the same time
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? blow jobs
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? leaves and shit sticking to me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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