What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 70
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? lots
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Like Being In A Film
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She called herself Sexdiva and replied to an ad I had placed online for mature women to model nude. We agreed that I would shoot her the next Monday at her place. She was 40 years old.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She said that being photographed nude by a stranger was one of her fantasies. I asked her what her other fantasies were and she said that a stranger would get in her car and make her perform sex acts which we decided to do at lunchtime. We met at the local shopping center in the underground carpark, I gave her exact directions of where to park.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I knocked on the window of her car and she let me in. I told her to remove her bra and panties. When she lifted her jumper I saw that she had beautiful breasts and I grabbed them roughly giving her nipple a good tug. I was horny, nervous, and excited all at once. I told her to kneel on her seat and lift her skirt up. She did as she was told as I inserted my fingers into her pussy and manipulated her to an orgasm. Then, I told her to undo my shorts, get my cock out, and suck me. I roughly pushed her head up and down holding her by her hair and shot my load into her mouth. She swallowed the whole thing. Before our meeting, I had masturbated myself to the edge off orgasm knowing at my age I might have a problem cumming. She looked up at me and asked if I wanted to get coffee. I agreed and we are now friends.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was elated. I wish we were still friends
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to a few friends I don’t think anybody believed me
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Everything was amazing. It was like being in a film.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No downside for me
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Anything can happen. Today I realized that some women want to play with old men.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? This was the start of an amazing 3 months
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have always enjoyed casual sex
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I have always wanted somewhere to share
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