What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los angeles
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? 100% straight male
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
Lost My Virginity To An Escort
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 day ago
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll refer to her as R.T.
She was tall (5’9″), blonde hair, green eyes, and a thick (not fat) body. She looked like the hot white women I would find myself staring at discreetly in public. I saw her profile on an escort website backed by many reviews, all positive. I texted her number and agreed to meet the following night at a semi-upscale motel. Before meeting her in person, I was a tad nervous because it was my first time with an escort, I was going to lose my virginity one way or another.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Her service was straightforward, we chatted for a few minutes before having me remove my clothes. She was already in her underwear and bra and we both laid in bed together.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After undressing, R.T asked me what I liked, and I told her upfront that I was a virgin and wanted her to show me the ropes. She laid down and I began to admire her body. I spent some of my time feeling her thick legs all the way. I’ve always had a fetish for women’s legs since I was young and this was an opportunity for me. I began to brush her feet with the tip my now hard-on dick and let it brush all the way to her ass as I crawled to her. We started to make out, and while doing so, I clung on to R.T’s ass. At this rate, my dick was as hard as a diamond. I took my boxers off, and she began to play with my dick. She began to lick my balls, and I reached for her perky tits. R.T saw precum and licked used her tongue to clean it off my dick.
She started giving me a blow job, which felt soooooo good, and I was caressing her blonde hair. R.T then got on top of me and started fucking. I clung on to her ass, and slid my finger between her buttcheeks.
We continued changing positions until she removed the condom off my dick and started sucking my dick once again. For a while, I took control as I hung on to her bun and fucked her mouth to wrap it up. Unfortunately, I was having a hard time getting an orgasm so we got on bed and R.T gave me a hand job. Since it got difficult, I took control and masturbated in front of her. As she saw the look on my face, knowing I was finally going to cum, she began sucking me off and continued doing so I until I was left with nothing.
R.T and I got in the shower and cleaned ourselves up. We chatted about life and her experience as an escort. I got to hear some gnarly stories and even gave me tips on how to properly fuck a vagina which didn’t surprise me, but wasn’t offended.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After finishing, we gave our goodbyes, exchanged hugs and drove my way home. I honestly did not feel as satisfied. The reason is because I was not that horny. I had a hard dick, but wasn’t feeling much from her blow job as well as fucking her. Usually I’m a little sensitive on being touched there but it’s probable that my nerves got the best of me.
Nonetheless, I still had a smile because I finally got to have sex, and did not care that I had to pay for it. I go out occasionally with friends but most most women insee have their guys so I don’t really get to talk to any.
I do plan on going back for some greek. I know I’ll be able to handle myself better since it’s her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My brother: He only asked me a couple of questions and suggested I be careful.
A close friend: he congratulated me and asked how I felt about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I found the perfect woman (online) with qualities that caressed my fetishes. Tall, and thick.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Struggled having an orgasm.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Just a bit, but ita only been two days so I’d have to look at it on the long-term. At least I don’t have to worry about my kissing skills when do meet a woman.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? People who are shy or have never had a girlfriend should give it a shot. Not everyone has the natural skill to pick up 10 numbers in one night. Don’t think negatively. You are learning something.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Again, it’s only been 2 days so I’m hoping that I don’t have to feel as shy. Since I don’t go out as often, I might see an escort at any given opportunity just to practice. Om the bright side, I don’t have to worry about impregnating the wrong women through a casual hookup.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Some stories are cool to read, but some are fake and I don’t support the glorification of adultery.
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