by: John

Gender: Male
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Stockbroker
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? July

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met at a bar that single Jews frequent. It was midnight, and we had a very drunken night. I can’t believe I even got in. A mate I’d gone with introduced us at the bar and we started chatting. She was brunette, not exactly skinny but attractive. Pretty face too. She was wearing a low top. Lovely cleavage. I imagined in my drunken haze how good it would be to kiss her neck and shoulders.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We chatted, my chat must have been terrible as I was so drunk. Before I knew it she asked if we could go back to my place and we were in a taxi.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Back at my place we went straight to my room and got down to our underwear. She said she didn’t want to have sex. We got naked and started hand stuff. I remember kissing her and caressing her lovely arse as she tossed me off. She went to the bathroom and when she came back I just grabbed her hand and moved it to my dick. She got me off again and I passed out. In the morning we chatted a bit in bed the we started stroking each other’s thighs. Feeling around her pussy she was horny still. I slid a finger in and then another. She grabbed my cock. I came quickly but she kept stroking me as I fingered her. Her moans were a real turn on. Soon she asked me to touch the outside of her pussy. I obliged. She soon stopped stroking me and relaxed. She fell asleep.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? 3 for me and 2 for her
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history?: No precaution or discussion

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were just horny

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not sure how drunk she was. I must have had 15 drinks

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I took her number but never called. She saw me a few weeks later and shouted at me for going round telling everyone about our hookup, I hadn’t. She should have been glad of the rumours, she’ll never get anyone as good as me again

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? People who’d seen me leave with her questioned me. We’re disappointed when I didn’t spill the beans

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why?: No regrets, a good learning experience.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Good fun and nice to just pick up an attractive stranger. Weird that she didn’t want to shag, she said she only had sex in relationships to avoid getting hurt. No inclination to do oral after a bad experience with a one night stand a few years ago.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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