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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Joy is 5’6″ tall, dark hair that is just past her shoulders with a little gray in it. Joy has brown eyes. She is 46 and divorced, fit with a great ass for a mother of 3, and as she walked into the oil change place, where I was waiting she made me take notice and quickly checked her out. She sat down next to me and began to engage in a conversation about the HGTV show on the TV. I was attracted to her instantly and was thinking she’d be a good lay.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We talked some more and then my car was finished and as I gathered my stuff to stand, Joy grabbed my arm and asked if I wanted to go to lunch together? I thought why not, and said “Sure.” We agreed on a nearby restaurant and I drove over to there. Joy was about 10 minutes behind me and I saw her pull up, park and get out of the car. I had gotten us a table and as she entered I waved. She came over saying “I’m glad your here. Sorry for being so forward but I feel connected somehow with you.” We looked at the menu and Joy then looked at me and said “This is REALLY forward but I told you I am divorce and to be honest, I haven’t been laid for over a year and for some reason, you just turned me on today. Can we dump lunch and go get a room for the rest of the day?”

What do you say to that? A fit woman, nearby age though slightly younger by 6 years wants to go get laid with me? “I said you know the Marriott just down the road on the other side of the expressway?” “Yeah,” she said. “Let’s go there.” “Sounds great,” Joy said.

We drove to the Marriott, Joy following me and we parked and went in. We registered as husband and wife and I used my info and a credit card only I had access to and paid online. We went up to the room and entered, I let Joy enter first, then I followed shutting the door behind me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, I turned around and Joy was right there, putting her hands to my face and kissing me passionately. I return the kiss, our tongues swishing back and forth in each other’s mouth. I quickly undressed Joy and she me, our clothes laying in a scattered heap from the door to the king size bed. By the time we were at the bed, we were naked, my hard dick sticking straight out and Joy’s tits hard as rocks. We laid down on the bed side by side, and I started to kiss her neck and worked my way down to her tits, alternating which one I sucked. Joy softly whimpered and whispered “That feels good!”

I lowered my hand down her body and found that she had trimmed her pubic hair to a thin long line and I followed that trail down to her pussy. I began by rubbing her pussy area, feeling how soaked she was. I had noticed when I took off her underwear that her panties were soaked and so I knew she was horny already.

As I played with her pussy area, Joy touched my dick. and then started gently stroking it. She smiled and said, “THAT is nice!” I am just over average in size and girth and Joy said, “I want that in me.” “Patience” was my reply. Joy had none, and she rolled onto her back, pulling me over, and pulling me up as we began to make out again. I felt her legs part and she grabbed my dick again and guided it to her pussy hole. “No condom,” I said and Joy said, “You fucking a lot of women right now?” I wasn’t so I said “No” and then she asked, “You fixed?” “Yeah, I had a vasectomy at 42” I replied. “Then fuck my hot, juicy, hungry pussy will you!”

With that Joy inserted my dick inside of her opening, and I drove deep into her pussy. She moaned “Oh hell yes” and then “Feels so good, go, go, yeah, YEAH!” I started pounding her in a steady, constant rhythm and soon Joy was matching my thrust and withdrawing, squeezing my dick with her pussy each time I drove deep into her vagina.

For ten minutes I kept this up, and I could see Joy was totally enjoying me fucking her. I kept my pace up and soon Joy was flushed in her boobs, neck, and face. I felt my cum ready to shoot into her and suddenly, Joy dug her nails into my shoulders and screamed “YES, YES, YES! YES!!! YES!!!!” Her legs were around me and squeezed me tightly and then I shot my first load into Joy. Instantly she reacted “More, GIVE ME MORE, FUCK ME HARD!” I drove deep as I shot my second load into her pussy, and then again with the fourth load. I thought the big shots were done when she squeezed my dick with her pussy and I shot off my fifth full load. Joy was moaning and panting like she was running a race, as I now kept cumming in her, shooting off my smaller loads three more times.

She collapsed, enjoying her orgasm as I pushed in a few more times and squeezed my ass cheeks together as I kept cumming in Joy’s pussy. She moaned again and kissed me, holding me tight. “Damn, that was incredible,” Joy said. I smiled and said, “Want more?” Joy smiled and said “Yes!” I now moved into a 69 position with Joy and started licking her outer pussy and then slowly working her clit. I found her spot of joy as I called it and slowly worked her up to an oral orgasm with her clit. She licked and kissed my dick, slowly taking the head into her mouth as I licked her clit. It took 30 minutes of oral sex but we both got turned on and Joy had another orgasm from her clit.

As she was enjoying that, I laid on my back and moved Joy to be on top of me. Eagerly she mounted me and using only her vagina, she guided my now hard dick back inside her pussy of pleasure. I entered her and slowly Joy started driving my dick deep in her pussy, and then would withdraw it halfway and then drive down on it, and then pull my dick halfway out again. For several minutes, she continued this motion, going slow and then suddenly she increased her tempo, speeding up. Her pussy was great and my dick fit her like a hand in a glove. Suddenly she drove down hard on my dick and I completely filled her pussy. Joy held still as I slowly moved my dick up and down in her. “That is so good,” Joy said.

Next Joy had rested I guess and she moved forward and I raised my hands up and rubbed and massaged her two breasts. They weren’t the biggest I had ever seen but not the smallest. Like my Dad had once told me, “What boobs you can’t fit in your mouth is a waste anyway.” Her nipples were hard and I liked playing with those while fucking her. Joy had moved forward and was now thrusting my dick in and out of her pussy, moving faster and faster. I felt my dick in her pussy and she was soaking wet and lubing my dick. “Lube and oil change?” I kidded. “Fill me up” Joy replied winking.

We kept fucking for the next ten minutes, going fast, then slowing down and then speeding up and slowing down. Joy rubbed her hands on my chest while we fucked and said “I’ve missed this so much.” and then she began to moan slightly. Her body went flush and I now matched her thrusting even farther up her pussy and driving her mad. “Fuck me, FUCK ME HARD!” Joy screamed. So I did, I drove my dick deep inside of her four, five and then on the sixth time, when I was completely in Joy’s pussy, she took over.

She went crazy, thrusting my dick in and out so rapidly she was almost a blur. Faster and faster she went, moaning loudly “Yes! Yes! YES!! YES!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!!!” and suddenly she moaned as her release came and her orgasms washed over her. At that exact moment, when I knew she was having her orgasm, I shot my cum deep in her and Joy moaned “Lube me, Lube Me, LUBE ME NOW! Shoot it” and I did. I shot five more full loads into her and five smaller loads as she wiggled and moved her ass around, squeezing my dick, taking in all my cum.

Joy kissed me now, again, passionately and kept my dick in her pussy as I continued to dribble my cum into her pussy. “I don’t know how you learned to fuck, but that was the best I have ever had.” Joy said. I smiled and said I have one more time. I let my dick fall out of her pussy, laid by her and started to finger her after fifteen minutes. Joy played with my dick again and got me hard about 40 minutes after we had finished our last round. This time I took her hand and led her to the bathroom with a deluxe and large shower for two. I turned on the water, hot it warm and led Joy into the shower.

Joy looked at me and I leaned her up on a way, the hot water running over her, and had her bend slightly over. My dick as I said was hard and I approached her from behind and my dick guided directly into her pussy again. She moaned as I entered her and I started to fuck her. My hands wrapped around her and I squeezed her boobs as I fucked her. In and out I went, all the way in, and I went all the way out. Each time I entered her pussy Joy moaned. “Again,” she said. I moved my dick in and out for the next several minutes. Then I went to town. I started fucking Joy fast and deep. I withdrew my dick until only my head was in her and then drove it deep and fast back in her, withdrew it out again just as fast and back in equally as fast again.

Suddenly Joy started moving in her ass in a small circle and moaning loudly. “Fuck me, FUCK ME” she screamed as I kept driving my dick deeper inside of her pussy. “Go deeper, fuck me, FUCK ME NOW!” Joy cried out. So I went as deep as I could go, feeling what I thought was her cervix but no matter, Joy went wild. I felt my load ready to shot and I drove in deep again and shot my cum inside of her. As I did that Joy literally screamed, moaned, panted heavily and yelled “YES!!!!! DON’T STOP! FUCK ME DEEPLY!” I kept thrusting and erupting, my cum shooting inside of her four times and then multiple times with smaller loads. Joy moaned slightly moving towards the floor like she wanted to collapse and then remember my dick was in her. She held her position and I kept thrusting and cumming in her.

Finally, she turned around, my firm dick falling out of her and dripping some cum onto the floor of the shower. Joy dropped to her knees and put my dick in her mouth and started to suck my shaft hard and I felt her licking my penis head as my cum kept coming out of my dick. “Uhmmmm,” she said, as for the next five minutes I got a post-fuck blow job so she could swallow what was left of my cum.

Finally she stopped, stood up and kissed me long and hard. I could taste the salty taste of my cum in her mouth but I didn’t care. We’d been fucking for 3 hours and Joy and I showered each other and kissed some more and dried off and got dress. Joy looked at me and said “Best fuck ever! Thank you!” I looked at her and said not bad for an afternoon delight eh?” “Yeah, just incredible.” Joy looked at me and I looked at her and asked “What?” “I want you to fuck me again but I have to go. How do I reach you?” I took her cell phone and entered my cell number into hers and said call me anytime if you want to fuck. I don’t fool around much, but I’d fuck you anytime you want.” “You liked it with me?” Joy asked. “Hell yes” I replied. “Even for a divorced lady with 3 kids?” “totally” I replied. “It’s like riding a bike, you never forgot once you’ve done it.”

At that Joy said how about next week, 2:00 pm here in this hotel again and this time I’ll get the room?” I looked at her, kissed her and said, “That’s a date!” We then left and went our separate ways.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Joy has called me twice to ensure I am going to be at the Marriott next week and I finally said “Want to go now?” “Yes, I do, but I can’t” was her reply. “That’s alright, I can’t wait for next Wednesday” and Joy said “Me either. I am wet thinking of you making love to me again.” For now I have a fuck buddy as Joy comes back from her divorce and it should last six months to a year and we’ll fuck once to twice a week. Eventually I think Joy will move on from me, but we’ll have these wonderful memories of this time together and we just have to enjoy our time making love.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just wanted to fuck a beautiful middle age lady

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. I have learned to keep my mouth shut about hooking up with others.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Wonderful sex, with a beautiful middle age lady.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. I fuck another woman other than my wife about once a year or two. I need sex more than my wife.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex keeps me happy and in my marriage.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? fine

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