What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Missouri
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a college student; white, 5’9”, thin.
I was at an adult store with large rooms in the back. Each room was either for straight, gay, couples, etc. This was in the gay room. I walked in and he was the only one in the room.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I walked in and he was sitting on a sofa with his pants off, stroking his cock. He was probably 7”, cut, very nice shape. He looked at me and asked if I wanted a blow job; I said sure. I walked over to him and pulled my cock out and he started sucking me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I leaned down to stroke him while he sucked me, but it wasn’t easy. I knelt between his legs and took him into my mouth. He was leaking a lot of pre-cum.
I sucked him for awhile and stood up so he could suck me. This went on for awhile and he said he needed to go soon. I knelt down and took him into my mouth to suck him and he started to fuck my mouth. He stood up, held my head and fucked my mouth hard and fast. I was gagging and eyes watering, but I took it.
He asked where I wanted it and I said my face. He pulled out and shot onto my face, got his things and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I masturbated until I came and left.
I didn’t think about it much the next day.
I don’t know him today and rarely think about him.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was fun and fulfilling.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think if people are into it, you should do it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a great project!
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