What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
Mr. ’24-7′ Fitness
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I started following him on a fitness app a few months ago. He’s in his early 40s, has black hair with some grey, brown eyes, an amazing smile, and he’s super-fit. His job is in sales, but his passion is fitness and he teaches cross fit a few days a week at his home gym. He lives 20 minutes away. His wife’s a teacher and they have 3 young children.
I started to ‘like’ and make comments on his shirtless selfie pics. Since comments on the fitness app are public, we switched to snap so we could flirt and share pics. He asked if I was ‘dtf’. I replied ‘always’. He told me his wife and kids would be out of town next week visiting family, so he asked to meet up. I gave him a thumbs up emoji and added ‘you’d better be worth the wait. LOL.’ He promised I wouldn’t be disappointed.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was wearing a strapless sundress and heels. In front of his house was a large SUV wrapped with the name of his gym in large letters then ’24-7 baby’ in smaller text, but ALL over! WTF lol
He opened the door and he looked so HOT! He was wearing a gray tank top, tight green shorts, and a hard on. I was relieved when he winked and looked me up and down with with a cocky grin. We hugged and I felt his hard cock press against me. I rubbed his smooth muscular chest and squeezed his cock as I walked inside. We didn’t spend time talking because we both knew why I was there. He took me to his bedroom and he took off his cloths. OMG, he’s HOT! I took off my dress and sat on the bed to unbuckle my heels. I noticed him snorting something on his dresser then he turned around. I found out later he was snorting coke. His cock was uncut, smooth, below average, and thin. His body was smooth and there was ‘no hair down there’. I offered oral, but he’d already put on a regular size condom and said he was ‘ready to fuck’.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I sat on the edge of the bed, opened my legs, and looked down as he placed his cock at my entrance then slammed himself inside with one motion. His firm body felt amazing as I began to cum. He found my spot and fucked me fast and hard until I started cumming more. I was close then suddenly, I got off. OMG! He kept pounding until I finished. He hit two more lines as I stood up. He smacked my ass, turned me around, bent me over, grabbed my hips, and rammed himself into me and began fucking fast and hard until I had another orgasm. WHEW! We got on the bed and he got on top and lasted a long time, then he finished.
I got dressed and he did two more lines. He offered me some, but I told him I only smoke weed. I wanted to have sex with him again so I asked if he wanted me to stay or leave. His attitude and tone changed a little, I couldn’t quite tell if it was his regular arrogant ego or he was just a jerk. He said, “Oh fuck, you need closure time don’t you?” He grabbed a bag of joints from a drawer and said, “I think these suck. You can have ‘em.” I got a bottle of water from the fridge and he grabbed an energy drink. I got a quick tour of the ‘home gym’ then we went out back. I lit one. After the first hit, I instantly knew this was good shit and I couldn’t believe he didn’t like it. WOW! I took another hit and I thought my head was going to explode! F-YEAH! He started bragging about himself A LOT! I got to hear about how much money he makes, all the shit he owns, all the pussy he scores behind his wife’s back… He was rambling about the type of women he prefers. WTF. He ‘prefers’ tall, tan, Columbian women with fake tits AND I was ‘lucky’ he agreed to hook-up with me because I’m opposite of what he likes. Whatever! I was very relaxed enjoying my joint so I ignored all that shit lol. I started getting horny and rubbed his cock and he was hard again. He did a couple more lines and we went back inside. We had amazing sex for a long time and I left afterward. I’d stayed at his house for almost 5 hours!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I stopped following him on the fitness app and don’t plan on hooking-up with him again. I shared the joints with my bestie Beck and she agreed they were good.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BFF Beck. She think’s he’s HOT, but also thinks he has issues from the cocaine. She thinks he’d taken a boner pill too, which makes sense.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I didn’t have to give him oral to get him hard cause he stayed hard the entire time! The sex was AMAZING! He was in control from start to finish! OMG!
Having multiple orgasms!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not giving him oral. His cock looked amazing and I wanted to suck it. He became a jerk and said hurtful things before I left. I don’t know why people are compelled to be say mean things to other people.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I LOVE meeting random people and having sex. I can’t describe the sensation that goes through my body when a guy is lusting after me and knowing we’ll be having sex soon. WHEW!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He’s a hot guy and amazing at sex, but he’s also a JERK. When we were having sex, he was fun and cool. However, when we were hanging out, his attitude and conversation changed. He had to constantly brag about himself then quickly change the subject and complain about people that wronged him in the past. When we were outside talking, he started insulting his wife’s appearance and body type and said she was ‘lame’ in bed. He kept bragging how he could’ve done much better. I asked him how often they have sex and he said she tries to often but he didn’t like fucking her. He’d prefer she get a boob job first. OMG!
I’m not a home wrecker, but I’ve had sex with lots of married guys and NONE of them EVER said mean stuff about their wives. The guys I’ve hooked-up just want sex because they’re not getting any.
Before I left, he started insulting me and said mean things. One thing he said was, ‘you’re not that good’ and he didn’t want to hook-up with me again because I’m ‘not his type.” Well, F off then! Sorry, A-hole I’m not 6ft tall with fake boobs. I’ve never had ‘bad’ sex, but when it’s not been great I’ve never told the person. RUDE! Sorry to ramble.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish society would be more accepting of casual sex like having a good friendship.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great place to share stories and vent. Sometime I feel that I ramble too much. I enjoy reading other stories. It’s nice to know other people are enjoying casual sex too.
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