What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 15
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Capetown
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Unsure / Questioning
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dating a guy, but exploring girls as well
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My 1st Lesbian Experience
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 nights ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I responded to an ad on Craigslist about a 44-year-old lady looking for a younger girl for one night of fun. So we got in touch, went for coffee, and decided to meet 3 days ago. She was a very fit-athletic lady, British, and a lesbian. I was curious to explore and wanted someone experienced.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We headed to her apartment where she sat me on her lap and asked if I wanted to proceed. I said yes and she kissed me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was mostly her kissing me while I stayed on her lap. Then she carried me to her bedroom and laid me down there. She proceeded to get on top of me and continued kissing me going down to my neck. Then she removed my shirt and shorts.
Mind you I’m only 15, I don’t have quite a body, and I’m somewhat flat chested, but she didn’t care less. She was enjoying herself, licking her way down to my vagina, and I was moaning.
Then she grabbed a strapon from her bag and straddled it. She told me to turn to the back on all fours, and then she pushed it into my pussy over and over.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was a good experience, painful at first but it was more of her enjoying herself. In a way, I regretted the strapon part as I didn’t know she was going to use that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Didn’t share with anyone. It’ll have a bad impact on my family and friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? It was a fantasy to experience another female, but I wanted it to be more of an oral experience. I wasn’t expecting a strapon, my boyfriend never fucked me before.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I enjoyed having another girl going down on me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The strapon. It was painful.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. Probably with consent.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing else to say
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Dunno
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Ok
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