What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
My boyfriend’s friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend.
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s a good friend of my boyfriend. By comparison, hes a bit taller, better looking, more confident, hotter body than my boyfriend. But i consider him a friend.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was a friday night. My boyfriend was working. I went out to the local dance club/bar with some girls of mine. I ran into my boyfriend’s friend there. I was out on the dance floor and he had joined me. We danced together and things got hot and heavy. We started getting physical. We slowly were grinding against each other. At one point we had our eyes locked, my arms wrapped around his neck, he had his hands gripped tight on my hips, and i can feel he was pretty hard down there. He asked me if i wanted a shot and i agreed and we walked off to down a couple. There he grabbed me and turned me around, my back towards him and he held me. I didnt fight it. I let me hold me with my butt tight against him. I can feel him breathing on my neck and ears. We talked while he caressed my hips and stomach and he toyed with my belly button. But that night we didnt kiss. We just said we should hang out more. The following Saturday night, the boyfriend was a work. I went out to the same bar/club again and met up with the friend. He danced sexually again and once again he held me tight just the way i liked it. I had my forehead against his forehead and i was in the mood. All that dancing and grinding, not sure who made the first move but our lips brushed against each other. Before u know it we were making out on the dance floor.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We both left together and went straight to his place. We did not mention a word about my boyfriend, his friend. He lead me to his sofa and we started making out. Eventually we were both naked, i was sitting on top of him grinding away. He got me all wet. We fucked for a good 5 minutes without protection, and then i made him put one on. He moved and kissed with more passion than my boyfriend. He then carried me to the bedroom while he was still inside of me. He then set me on the bed and flipped me around and fucked me from behind. He pulled out and i leaked all over. He got on top of me and fucked me missionary. He came 2 times that night. That was the most incredible sex ive ever had.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have not hooked up since. I think it was just a one night thing to get it out of our system. I always had a little crush towards him and i knew he was attracted to me. In a way i still think about it. I still want to try him maybe one more time. Im curious if a relationship can come out of it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Felt bad cheating on my boyfriend but at the same time i see myself as young and still learning about myself.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The boyfriend’s friend was always a guy i kind of desired. Best sex ive ever had.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
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